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Author:  Danzella [ Fri Sep 09, 2011 12:28 am ]
Post subject:  Were these IOI's?
I enrolled on my new college course today, a very good friend of mine happened to be doing the same course so we went around together for the majority of the day. With him was an HB8. I've seen her around a few times and shes been around my group of friends a couple of times, but we've never really spoken all that much until today.

Within about 10 minutes, she was asking whether I was ticklish and then tried to tickle me, she did this to my friend shortly after, so it was hard to tell whether this was an IOI or not.

Whilst on a break, we were walking down the highstreet, my friend was talking to a group of people so we walked on ahead, a woman with a push chair walked past and HB8 turned to me saying "I want a baby" in which I replied "Buy me a drink first, then we'll talk"

For the rest of the day, we had a running joke between us that she was pregnant, generally being playful and a little flirty.

Though at the time time, she was being equally as flirty to my friend.

Opinions? :)
Author:  TheFreshPrince [ Fri Sep 09, 2011 8:13 pm ]
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Bottom line is that my general rule is: "If it looks like it may be an IOI, then it's an IOI." Think: What difference would it make to you, either way?

Personally, (maybe just because Ive had some bad experiences), I think the pregnancy joke is kind of creepy, but I don't know you, nor the culture you're in, nor your guys' involvement as well as you do, so I'm certainly not judging, just want to see if you felt the same way about it, or if you were ok with it.

Finally, some girls are simply flirty with everyone. That's just who they are. Again, the question is: What difference does it make if it's an IOI or not?
Author:  ProfessorX [ Fri Sep 09, 2011 8:59 pm ]
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I'm going to go with no.
Author:  Slip n Slide [ Fri Sep 09, 2011 9:07 pm ]
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Bottom line is that my general rule is: "If it looks like it may be an IOI, then it's an IOI." Think: What difference would it make to you, either way?

Finally, some girls are simply flirty with everyone. That's just who they are. Again, the question is: What difference does it make if it's an IOI or not?
Cut out the middle part, cause I don't care either way about pregnancy jokes, but this is EXACTLY right. Whether or not they were IOIs, it makes no difference unless you make a move and find out! So I'll say that yes, they were, because hopefully it'll make you do something about it.
Author:  charblad [ Fri Sep 09, 2011 10:37 pm ]
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I'm going with yes/no. Yes they are but No when shes the one doing them. The difference between answers is slip and thefresh say act as if everything is a IOI and start gaming, but of course professor is saying since she is like this with everyone, if your a jealous man (or if you think you arnt but might be) it will tear your @ss apart seeing her flirting with every guy she meets. Your decision is can you deal with her being flirty to everyone, and calling herself yours? the answer to that question is the answer to yours.
Author:  Glade [ Fri Sep 09, 2011 10:40 pm ]
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Here's my golden rule on if it's an IOI or not. Would you do that to a gay guy you know? Would you tickle a gay guy? Probably not. Would you even ask if he's ticklish? Maybe, in certain situations, but probably not in yours. Would you tell a gay guy essentially you want something up your butt? I hope not.

Yes, they were IOIs.

Glade
Author:  Danzella [ Tue Sep 13, 2011 2:55 pm ]
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Here's my golden rule on if it's an IOI or not. Would you do that to a gay guy you know? Would you tickle a gay guy? Probably not. Would you even ask if he's ticklish? Maybe, in certain situations, but probably not in yours. Would you tell a gay guy essentially you want something up your butt? I hope not.

Yes, they were IOIs.

Glade
Haha this made me laugh, very true.

As for the others, I agree IOI's are generally pointless if I'm not going to make a move, and believe me I was flirting back, lots of Kino, push pull etc.. I wasn't just standing there like a douche letting her come onto me, and not doing anything back :)

Thanks for the answers guys.
Author:  somebody delete this shit [ Tue Sep 13, 2011 5:18 pm ]
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IOIs are basically useless

I'm under the impression that if she looks at me she's interested
Author:  ProfessorX [ Tue Sep 13, 2011 5:52 pm ]
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IOIs are basically useless
IOI's are part of the dance, it's helps to recognize them.
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