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| Author: | aga19 [ Thu Sep 08, 2011 4:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Help with the friend zone |
met this girl a year ago. she had a boyfriend for a little while, still has that boyfriend now. she would always complain to me about him and even say things like she wishes he was more like me, etc. now she barely ever brings him up and its kind of like hes just there. one day she said a mutual friend said that we should date. i never picked up on any of these things and currently am in the friend zone...horrible place. my problem is that i'm too nice and make it so obvious that i like her, like she can do no wrong that it's a turn off. so i need help. she does text me every day and starts these convos and we talk more than her and bf but i feel like shes using me as someone to make her feel better about herself. we definitely have a great trust between eachother and many people have said that they think she likes me, but i dont see it. its more of im her best friend and im always there for her, so anytime she needs help she comes to me. sees nothing more in me. so pretty much how do i stop being the nice best friend and try to develop my way out of the friend zone and get this girl to start seeing me differently without coming across like a total asshole?? ideas/suggestions would be greatly appreciated. |
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| Author: | anthonypham [ Thu Sep 08, 2011 4:11 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with the friend zone |
Quote: so pretty much how do i stop being the nice best friend and try to develop my way out of the friend zone and get this girl to start seeing me differently without coming across like a total asshole?? ideas/suggestions would be greatly appreciated. - stop being nice; - create tension, make her feel uncomfortable [this is dangerous, if she feels too uncomfortable, she is gone] - KINO, eye-contact, |
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| Author: | charblad [ Thu Sep 08, 2011 4:32 pm ] |
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Anthony is pretty on there, Kino is ESCALATION, that means you CANT go to far with it if you understand it at all. If you have no clue how to do kino or its your first time yes you have to be careful to not make her too uncomfortable until you master the timing; and hes right about creating tension, but SEXUAL tension is what you want, kino is a great way to do it, but if you want it to stay with her when your gone you need to implant sexual ideas. "my friend is always so good with women, he would take them home and run his hands up their shirts, kissing them passionately..." and she will think about this, and hear you saying it thus relating it to you, and putting herself in that situation with you. |
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| Author: | sambotanman [ Thu Sep 08, 2011 5:57 pm ] |
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you need to read about compliance tests. if she ever turns you down when you escalate show IOD then DHV. If she lets you escalate then give her an IOI. Im sure you have a lot of kino with her and probably flirt a lot since you are friends. For me im really touchy but its hard for me to kiss a girl. So if i was you i would just whisper things in her ear while keeping eye contact and just try to have moments where your face is really close to hers. your faces can only go so close without kissing hahaha |
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| Author: | aga19 [ Thu Sep 08, 2011 10:02 pm ] |
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yeah part of my problem is that i feel if i come on too strong she'll get uncomfortable because she just sees me as a friend right now. want to try and find a way to get her to think of me differently. another question is like when she comes to me for advice or shes feeling upset, how do i act in those situations? normally i'd be 100% nice and just try to help her out and make her feel good. is that a good or bad idea? if bad, what do i do differently? |
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