PUA Forum :: Girl didn't respond to my text after make out

very abbreviated version:
this girl messages me on a dating site asking to get to know me. I ask her out and we go on a date. WHAT TYPE OF DATE???She lives like 40 minutes away from me but she comes up to see me. GOOD SHE IS INVESTED Date goes not too well. I mean not bad, but I screwed up making it really fun or escalating kino. WHAT IS WRONG WITH FUN AND KINO I AM CONFUSED! I ask her out the following week via text. Don't hear from her, get drunk and mail her that night saying i've been asked out by tons of girls on this site and she's the second girl I've ever replied to and that we should get to know each other. QUALIFYING YOURSELF, AND NO CHALLENGE Dumb. I know, I don't need advice on that part, screwed up. She texts me the following morning saying she can't go b/c she's out of town (she was going to wedding...no really). I text back saying I drunk messaged her. So that week was gone.

The following week I ask her out over the dating site b/c my phone is botched. I don't hear from her until three days later. She's apologizing..saying she is working some festival and then asks me about my vacation. IOI

I ignore her response. She texts the following day...I'm short. I ignore her for 2 days, she texts me to ask how my weekend was. We start texting again. I ask her out knowing she was going out of town that weekend, did she want to meet up before she leaves town. She says yes and we go to dinner. NO DINNER AFC! I make a point of upping physical contact and we end up making out after dinner, it was dead simple....we made out for a bit by her car and she left for home before her trip. Couldnt get her to stay longer cuz she lives out of town and had to pack for her trip. OKAY!

I text her this week, she takes a day to respond. I wait half a day and ask her out...1 day later, no response.

I'm wasting my time? Why is this girl making out with me on the one hand and then completely ignoring me. I feel like she's stringing me along.

Author:	estar99 [ Thu Sep 08, 2011 5:11 am ]
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very abbreviated version: this girl messages me on a dating site asking to get to know me. I ask her out and we go on a date. She lives like 40 minutes away from me but she comes up to see me. Date goes not too well. I mean not bad, but I screwed up making it really fun or escalating kino. I ask her out the following week via text. Don't hear from her, get drunk and mail her that night saying i've been asked out by tons of girls on this site and she's the second girl I've ever replied to and that we should get to know each other. Dumb. I know, I don't need advice on that part, screwed up. She texts me the following morning saying she can't go b/c she's out of town (she was going to wedding...no really). I text back saying I drunk messaged her. So that week was gone. The following week I ask her out over the dating site b/c my phone is botched. I don't hear from her until three days later. She's apologizing..saying she is working some festival and then asks me about my vacation. I ignore her response. She texts the following day...I'm short. I ignore her for 2 days, she texts me to ask how my weekend was. We start texting again. I ask her out knowing she was going out of town that weekend, did she want to meet up before she leaves town. She says yes and we go to dinner. I make a point of upping physical contact and we end up making out after dinner, it was dead simple....we made out for a bit by her car and she left for home before her trip. Couldnt get her to stay longer cuz she lives out of town and had to pack for her trip. I text her this week, she takes a day to respond. I wait half a day and ask her out...1 day later, no response. I'm wasting my time? Why is this girl making out with me on the one hand and then completely ignoring me. I feel like she's stringing me along.

Author:	Darth Vader [ Thu Sep 08, 2011 5:55 am ]
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you probably had bad breath and stink JK she's probably having fun on her trip

Author:	estar99 [ Thu Sep 08, 2011 5:59 am ]
Post subject:	Nah
She just moved to the area and wants to meet new people. She's not visiting. I know you're kidding, but my hygiene is not the issue..

Author:	skills360 [ Thu Sep 08, 2011 6:26 am ]
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estar making out with the girl does not mean shit, i even bang them, and sometimes women will flake, with that being said, you are too invested in this girl, i would advise you to learn game, your game is very weak, start with David d double your dating, if still in need of help there is some dude here wrapped minds, he has a decent game...

Author:	estar99 [ Thu Sep 08, 2011 6:34 am ]
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You're right, I am too invested. It's primarily because I think she's a quality girl. Can you be more specific with regards to "my game is weak." Anything in particular you can point out from my post that I can correct.

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Author:	Verain [ Thu Sep 08, 2011 10:06 am ]
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Yeah girls making out with you and thinking it actually means something was one of the mistakes I had to get over it's really like nothing for them. If she's still on her trip then you can give her a bit of a break about the texting but you should really be focusing your efforts on gaming other people.

Author:	Mr Smiles [ Thu Sep 08, 2011 11:59 am ]
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She is toying with you i think. When a girl is interested it is very obvious so dont chase her anymore and move on or you will only get left in the dust. If she starts texting or calling you again then..good the roles are reversing. Funny though...when i make out with a girl she like falls in love and stuff...lol joking.

Author:	Don Draper [ Thu Sep 08, 2011 12:56 pm ]
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I think she's just exhibiting her natural behavior through the whole hot/cold blowing. Women tend to do that. Now, are you willing to persist in your efforts towards this girl or would you rather move on to some girl who's well.. not so volatile in her behavior, is something that you need to ask yourself at this point. Whatever be the answer, you know where you have to go from there.

Author:	estar99 [ Thu Sep 08, 2011 10:31 pm ]
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She texted back, a little over a day later saying she had been super busy and apologizing, but never answered whether she could make it tonight. She did the same thing 2 weeks ago though. I'm holding off to respond to her. I'll probably call her in 2 days.

Author:	Chris2k10 [ Thu Sep 08, 2011 10:35 pm ]
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You're doing it wrong. Making out is a huge no no. To the girl, you're just another "bar make out". You have to kiss them sweetly then aggressive all within 3 seconds and THAT'S IT. You have to leave the girl asking for more, leave some room for the relationship to grow. If the girl ignores you, don't ignore the girl after that like you did. That's as a result of your ego and I feel ya but now that you have the PROPER information, your results will be different.

Author:	estar99 [ Thu Sep 08, 2011 11:02 pm ]
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Ignoring the girl for a couple of days made her instantly reply to my text and made her text me instead of me her....reversing the chase....that's wrong? I'm starting to wonder if this forum is that useful. These situations are too complex to represent in text, there's a lot of conflicting information, and it's unclear who actually knows waht they are talking about. I asked her out for Thursday on Tuesday. She didn't reply till Thursday morning and didnt answer my question, but apologized for being MIA. I was going to call her on Saturday to see if she wanted to go out Sunday. Thoughts?

Author:	Chris2k10 [ Thu Sep 08, 2011 11:53 pm ]
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Quote: Ignoring the girl for a couple of days made her instantly reply to my text and made her text me instead of me her....reversing the chase....that's wrong? I'm starting to wonder if this forum is that useful. These situations are too complex to represent in text, there's a lot of conflicting information, and it's unclear who actually knows waht they are talking about. I asked her out for Thursday on Tuesday. She didn't reply till Thursday morning and didnt answer my question, but apologized for being MIA. I was going to call her on Saturday to see if she wanted to go out Sunday. Thoughts? As a guy, you aren't supposed to reverse the chase. That stuff is childish and new nowadays. Classic boy picking up girl is boy doing the chasing. It's not about being needy, or anything. It's our role. I see what you mean about the complexity. My stuff comes from 60 years of challenge, the most legitimate material out there. I've heard and read it all, so I put the money where my mouth is.

Author:	skills360 [ Thu Sep 08, 2011 11:56 pm ]
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Quote: Ignoring the girl for a couple of days made her instantly reply to my text and made her text me instead of me her....reversing the chase....that's wrong? I'm starting to wonder if this forum is that useful. These situations are too complex to represent in text, there's a lot of conflicting information, and it's unclear who actually knows waht they are talking about. I asked her out for Thursday on Tuesday. She didn't reply till Thursday morning and didnt answer my question, but apologized for being MIA. I was going to call her on Saturday to see if she wanted to go out Sunday. Thoughts? You are a 100% correct, be careful who you get advise from, just click on other post the people giving you advise have posted, you will get a feel of who has game or not... Don Draper, Ezo, Wrapped Minds, those are guys that have decent game...I particularly like Wrapped Minds...

Author:	skills360 [ Fri Sep 09, 2011 12:05 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Girl didn't respond to my text after make out
ALRIGHT MAN LET ME HELP YOU OUT, IN MY OPINION YOU NEED A BIT MORE OF EDUCATION WHEN IT COMES TO GAME, A VERY BASIC/SIMPLE BOOK IS DOUBLE YOUR DATING BY DAVID D, READ NEXT TO CAPS, NO YELLING MY STYLE: Quote: very abbreviated version: this girl messages me on a dating site asking to get to know me. I ask her out and we go on a date. WHAT TYPE OF DATE???She lives like 40 minutes away from me but she comes up to see me. GOOD SHE IS INVESTED Date goes not too well. I mean not bad, but I screwed up making it really fun or escalating kino. WHAT IS WRONG WITH FUN AND KINO I AM CONFUSED! I ask her out the following week via text. Don't hear from her, get drunk and mail her that night saying i've been asked out by tons of girls on this site and she's the second girl I've ever replied to and that we should get to know each other. QUALIFYING YOURSELF, AND NO CHALLENGE Dumb. I know, I don't need advice on that part, screwed up. She texts me the following morning saying she can't go b/c she's out of town (she was going to wedding...no really). I text back saying I drunk messaged her. So that week was gone. The following week I ask her out over the dating site b/c my phone is botched. I don't hear from her until three days later. She's apologizing..saying she is working some festival and then asks me about my vacation. IOI I ignore her response. She texts the following day...I'm short. I ignore her for 2 days, she texts me to ask how my weekend was. We start texting again. I ask her out knowing she was going out of town that weekend, did she want to meet up before she leaves town. She says yes and we go to dinner. NO DINNER AFC! I make a point of upping physical contact and we end up making out after dinner, it was dead simple....we made out for a bit by her car and she left for home before her trip. Couldnt get her to stay longer cuz she lives out of town and had to pack for her trip. OKAY! I text her this week, she takes a day to respond. I wait half a day and ask her out...1 day later, no response. I'm wasting my time? Why is this girl making out with me on the one hand and then completely ignoring me. I feel like she's stringing me along. SHE MAYBE, SHE MAYBE NOT! She maybe losing interest, you are losing momentum... you should have done it(sex), the first date, maybe the second date, after that you set her up for courtship, and that maybe the problem, dating site, dinner, courtship shit! = failure... Hope it helps...

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Author:	estar99 [ Fri Sep 09, 2011 12:09 am ]
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thanks guys, apreciate input thus far.