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| Author: | imwaltk [ Wed Sep 07, 2011 2:57 am ] |
| Post subject: | She thinks she is MY challenge! Now what??? |
HOW DO I RESPOND TO THIS... HER: "I wanted to ask you: I think I get it... I am your challenge, right? You want to see if you can capture me?" Been talking to this girl, but she is reluctant to be with a guy because she's got screwed over in her last relationship. She is very disinterested in dating, but she continues to talk to me because we have a lot in common and fun... BUT she says she doesn't understand why I still want to talk to her even though she is not interested. Now she thinks that I'm only interested and not giving up because I am challenged by her (see above statement). Now what am I supposed to say to that? I think I'm supposed to somehow flip it around back to her, right? Any ideas? Thanks! |
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| Author: | charblad [ Wed Sep 07, 2011 3:33 am ] |
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"haha yes, im challenged to see how long i can keep you off of me" is the first one that comes to mind, there might be some flaws with it but if noone else responds you have a backup  It's her job to be challenged to get you, remind her of that its not your job to go after a challenge
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| Author: | imwaltk [ Wed Sep 07, 2011 4:25 am ] |
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I'm not sure if the wording is right on that, but I'm definitely thinking something along those lines... How about "the real challenge is keeping you from wanting me too much" |
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| Author: | Don Draper [ Wed Sep 07, 2011 11:14 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She thinks she is MY challenge! Now what??? |
Quote: HOW DO I RESPOND TO THIS...
Actually, be indignant that she considers herself that, and that you're not amused by this..HER: "I wanted to ask you: I think I get it... I am your challenge, right? You want to see if you can capture me?" "What is this? You're not some animal I have to hunt. Or some score I have to mark in my book somewhere. Or some notch on my bedpost. I'm attracted to you and I have been honest about it. Now, you don't have to rationalise that in ways you yourself see fit ,Okay? Don't tell me what you are for me. 'Cause you don't *know*." That should see to it, that she doesn't question you regarding this ever again and that you're your own man. This is a test for for you, blow her away with selective honesty. It always works. Good luck. |
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