PUA Forum :: Is She Taken?

I just had the realization that I never ask if she has a boyfriend, looking at my game I feel like I kino escalate so fast that it's very easy to tell whether or now something is possible and if I get the compliance I'm looking for I never need to ask. Now I'm not going to lie I've slept with a few girls that have boyfriends/ husbands so I guess it really never mattered to me in the passed...

But here's the question, how and when do you ask if she's taken, or do you ask? Tips on figuring it out on a none verbal level would be great.

Any feed back would be great.

You never ask, if you ask is showing too much interest

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You never ask, if you ask is showing too much interest

Honestly I don't normally ask, because I don't care, competition is competition she's gonna sleep with me or not and why give her reasons to not, right?

but none the less, I like to hear what people use if they do ask.

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You never ask, if you ask is showing too much interest

If it's a problem for her, she'll bring it up every time...Your game must be solid enough to negate a boyfriend. I would also check for rings (in the case of a fiance and husbands) which I draw the line at (not engagement but married)

I've seen obviously married women (some 9's and 10's) fail to mention it which puts me in a bit of a pickle. HB+libido vs. Morality....kind of a mindfuck. So I try not to game them if they're obviously married.

So for me: If her hand is clear and she doesn't bring it up= she doesn't have a boyfriend (whether thats true or not, who the fuck knows). It can't be THAT serious if she is letting you game her. Most will let you know at some point, then I just use "Oh thats cute, I have a gold fish, his name is Harry. Take off your pants." (Ok ok, that last part I made up, but that would be some Han Solo shit haha)

Author:	Vitamin-J [ Mon Sep 05, 2011 8:45 am ]
Post subject:	Is She Taken?
I just had the realization that I never ask if she has a boyfriend, looking at my game I feel like I kino escalate so fast that it's very easy to tell whether or now something is possible and if I get the compliance I'm looking for I never need to ask. Now I'm not going to lie I've slept with a few girls that have boyfriends/ husbands so I guess it really never mattered to me in the passed... But here's the question, how and when do you ask if she's taken, or do you ask? Tips on figuring it out on a none verbal level would be great. Any feed back would be great.

Author:	tnchn66 [ Mon Sep 05, 2011 10:16 am ]
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hey man i had this same problem like 6 months ago...it got to the point where i was too scared to approach cause i thought she had a boyfriend.. But ya i do the same as you, just kino and compliance tests and if she accepts i assume she is into me and is single...but later when i k close or whatever i realise she has a boyfriend.. maybe during the set you can just mention "man how does your boyfriend put up with you, are you always this annoying/rude??" with a cheeky smile I hope that helps man

Author:	Don Draper [ Mon Sep 05, 2011 6:12 pm ]
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Ask her indirectly in the form of a question. "So what does your boyfriend do?" Works well for me.

Author:	anthonypham [ Mon Sep 05, 2011 6:18 pm ]
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If she doesn't mention the bf, then: - she has no bf; - she has a bf, but the relationship is not that good; - she just wants casual sex. If you k/f-close her, then you should not feel bad about it.

Author:	skills360 [ Mon Sep 05, 2011 6:22 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Is She Taken?
Quote: I just had the realization that I never ask if she has a boyfriend, looking at my game I feel like I kino escalate so fast that it's very easy to tell whether or now something is possible and if I get the compliance I'm looking for I never need to ask. Now I'm not going to lie I've slept with a few girls that have boyfriends/ husbands so I guess it really never mattered to me in the passed... But here's the question, how and when do you ask if she's taken, or do you ask? Tips on figuring it out on a none verbal level would be great. Any feed back would be great. You never ask, if you ask is showing too much interest, last night i was dancing with a girl and they play a song about if you are singel raise you hand, i tried to raise her hand while dancing, and she said i do have a boyfriend, what did i do ignore, neutral, keep doing my thing, sometimes i believe the boyfriend stuff is shit testing... Now if she said i have a boyfriend, i get super happy and say awesome, cause i do not have to worry about you hooking up with me specially when you are not my type, now i am relieved, cool, 5 minutes later,making out!

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Author:	Vitamin-J [ Tue Sep 06, 2011 10:10 am ]
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Quote: You never ask, if you ask is showing too much interest Honestly I don't normally ask, because I don't care, competition is competition she's gonna sleep with me or not and why give her reasons to not, right? but none the less, I like to hear what people use if they do ask.

Author:	M2 [ Tue Sep 06, 2011 10:58 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Is She Taken?
Quote: Quote: You never ask, if you ask is showing too much interest Honestly I don't normally ask, because I don't care, competition is competition she's gonna sleep with me or not and why give her reasons to not, right? but none the less, I like to hear what people use if they do ask. If it's a problem for her, she'll bring it up every time...Your game must be solid enough to negate a boyfriend. I would also check for rings (in the case of a fiance and husbands) which I draw the line at (not engagement but married) I've seen obviously married women (some 9's and 10's) fail to mention it which puts me in a bit of a pickle. HB+libido vs. Morality....kind of a mindfuck. So I try not to game them if they're obviously married. So for me: If her hand is clear and she doesn't bring it up= she doesn't have a boyfriend (whether thats true or not, who the fuck knows). It can't be THAT serious if she is letting you game her. Most will let you know at some point, then I just use "Oh thats cute, I have a gold fish, his name is Harry. Take off your pants." (Ok ok, that last part I made up, but that would be some Han Solo shit haha)

Author:	skills360 [ Tue Sep 06, 2011 4:40 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: Quote: You never ask, if you ask is showing too much interest Honestly I don't normally ask, because I don't care, competition is competition she's gonna sleep with me or not and why give her reasons to not, right? but none the less, I like to hear what people use if they do ask. If it's a problem for her, she'll bring it up every time...Your game must be solid enough to negate a boyfriend. I would also check for rings (in the case of a fiance and husbands) which I draw the line at (not engagement but married) I've seen obviously married women (some 9's and 10's) fail to mention it which puts me in a bit of a pickle. HB+libido vs. Morality....kind of a mindfuck. So I try not to game them if they're obviously married. So for me: If her hand is clear and she doesn't bring it up= she doesn't have a boyfriend (whether thats true or not, who the fuck knows). It can't be THAT serious if she is letting you game her. Most will let you know at some point, then I just use "Oh thats cute, I have a gold fish, his name is Harry. Take off your pants." (Ok ok, that last part I made up, but that would be some Han Solo shit haha) On sunday i had a married woman and her hubby, her hubby was dancing with hb 9 that i wanted and i was dancing with, all of the sudden, the married lady bit my ass, hahahaha, i was like wtf, then she started dancing with me, told me that is her hubby, put my finger under her skirt to her pussy and had no panties, i felt so freaking weird, i froze, then she game me tongue, then the hubby got pissed, crazy shit! If a girl is at a club and tell you she is married, easy snl, with that being said, 100% against it , but sometimes those marriage are not marriages, they are just roomates, for the kids, finances etc....But in reality they are just marriages in title, so calibrate, because if you do not do shit, some other dude will, but again i am against it.

Author:	Vitamin-J [ Sun Sep 11, 2011 10:29 pm ]
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hahaha, well played

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