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Author:  apprentice22 [ Sun Sep 04, 2011 6:47 am ]
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Hey everyone,
Glad to be a part of the new community. I am a senior in college and want my last year to be the best, so decided I need to make some changes and really have the type of year I want to. I hope to learn from you guys and really take my game to the next level.

One of the problems I need to work on is talking to strangers at clubs and bars. Clubs I can never hear anyone and do not have an idea of how to even start a conversation with a girl none the less get them back to my place. Also, when it comes to bars I still have trouble making approaches and catching the interests of women. I know I need to work on conversation starters and things to say, but not sure what the best way is to do it. What do you guys do to start a conversation or when your mind goes blank while talking to people. I look forward to hearing your responses and thanks for the help.
Author:  ProfessorX [ Sun Sep 04, 2011 5:38 pm ]
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Clubs are the domain of the Alpha's, it requires more advanced game to be successful. For now, it's probably best to stick to bars, parties and get-togethers where you can actually talk to people.
Author:  Ezo [ Sun Sep 04, 2011 7:14 pm ]
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Sounds like you are suffering from analysis paralysis.

Dont care about the venue, just go where there are people (girls). If that is a bar, fine, disco, fine as well. There is no such thing as stick to the "easy" places in the beginning. I did my first AMOG training in bikerbars among HD guys and drug dealers. I did my first pickup attempts in the fanciest discos I could find.

Just get in there, it is gonna be fun! And difficult as well. Just remember that you should not get scared, you will learn faster if you just jump in.

If your mind goes blank, just use whatever opener, force yourself to open and improvise the rest, even if you will run away in shame, you will at least have gotten training in opening and will have lost some of your insecurity! Good luck!
Author:  apprentice22 [ Mon Sep 05, 2011 4:14 pm ]
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thanks for the advice guys, i'll def do better next time I go out and let you know the results.
Author:  skills360 [ Mon Sep 05, 2011 5:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: New Member seeking advice
Quote:
Hey everyone,
Glad to be a part of the new community. I am a senior in college and want my last year to be the best, so decided I need to make some changes and really have the type of year I want to. I hope to learn from you guys and really take my game to the next level.

One of the problems I need to work on is talking to strangers at clubs and bars. Clubs I can never hear anyone and do not have an idea of how to even start a conversation with a girl none the less get them back to my place. Also, when it comes to bars I still have trouble making approaches and catching the interests of women. I know I need to work on conversation starters and things to say, but not sure what the best way is to do it. What do you guys do to start a conversation or when your mind goes blank while talking to people. I look forward to hearing your responses and thanks for the help.


Club game different than regular game, the only time you use regular game is in the patio if the club has a patio/or the outside...You do not talk, you dance with the girl, you use a lot of body language, you escalate, no talking, the less you talk the better, calibration important, you need to be good at reading not verbal signals and women body language, is a bit more complex, wait for my book to come out...Mean while this guy has the right idea:


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=crITPs-V-bE
Author:  apprentice22 [ Mon Sep 05, 2011 11:17 pm ]
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Skills thanks for the link it was really interesting.
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