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| Author: | Snake Doctor [ Sat Sep 03, 2011 2:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Need Help on this one! |
This Hb is complete puzzle to me, I cant understand, hope you guys can. So me and this Hb we were really good friends for a long time we grew up together, neighbourhoods, but we stop talking for about 6 years( she told me I was jackass), until recently our group started to reunited once again and having some fun, so me and her we got close again (mostly because of my pua skills) ,now she calls me a lot of times to talk about her relantioship or me about my pickups, she pyschology i ask her sometimes advices on situation on girls, We now live in diferent cities but she comes every vacation on our town so i see her, and we kind spent some time together at that time she had BF(not anymore) but i knew she was attracted to me.. On this Summer: Out of the blue she tolds she is emotionaly clingy, and starts telling me she was always atracted to me since we were 16, that im very handsome guy, and why we never hook up,and telling me if she wasnt good enough for me, and why i was always dodgin her when we were teenegers and we should do this now because, we are both avaiable, we are friends and she is leaving in couple of day. So we make out, I really think she had some fantasy with me ( she even told me she was dreaming with me alot of times . I know she liked it because she was always pulling me while I was pushing her, ,she kind begs me to hook up with her later, which we did , she kinda ask me if "this" going to happen again. She also ask me to not tell anyone especially our friends,we have to keep this a secret.Ok agree no one need to know we are hooking up. Day 2 - After the make out In the afternoon after on facebook I invite her to drop by my house so we could chat, she enters my house and starts looking every single room, when we reach my room i make my move but she kind pushes me telling "no no we wont have sex so dont get any ideias", I laugh and said "who talk anything about sex, I only kissed you guess you are afraid to give in temptation, dont worry i can control myself". after that we make out until my mother arrived. At night we hang up with our friends and she secretly starts flirting in front of our friends, rubbing her leg, giving me innuendos about us.We kind figure a way to ditch our friends and we make out, and things become very hot. Day 3. I tell her in the afternoon that im going to pick her up, She enters my car and goes full inocent with me, Where are we going? we are just going to talk right? its not going to be when you want bla bla, that we are friends and we shouldnt behave like that i notice she was trying to switch the power. When we reach a good spot to make out, I didnt jump her like she was expecting, I go full friend mode and start talking about some girls , and watch her face going dissapointed and after some time she is the one to jump on me lol. We arrange to meet at night to make out, after our friends leave, again she is being extremly flirt but we went home . but she told me she would drop by my house on the next day because she will feel more confortable without other ppl seeing. Day 4 I ask her what times she is going to drop by my house she tells me she has things to do but if she has time she will come(ofc i knew she was not coming at this moment). She didnt appeared.but she called me later talking about the most trivial things, without telling or giving me excuse for not appearing, i didnt talk about that subject Day 5 I broke contact, had things to do had exams on the next day, and I injured myself on that day when i was running. At 11PM she sents me txt if we were going to make out, told her I cant i had injured i need rested, she still insist being all flirty I told her I cant. She then Calls me at 1AM when she reach home to see if everthing was ok and to wish me GL for tomorrow. Day 6 She arranges a dinner with our friends since she was leaving to another town , she then tolds me she cant make it , because she had dinner with her parents but but after that she will come to us, while we were on the phone discussing this, agains she goes full flirty asking if we are going to be together telling me alot of things and at night we should makekout as last goodbye. At night tHe girl she kinds ignores my txt for about two hours, she then says she is coming ,she appears near us at 1AM drunk with another group. she just greets and leave. I was like Wtf, Well ignore and she the girl with her first ex boyfriend, the passion of her love (but he is married) I Left with my friends, untill now she text me a few moments So what should I do she is leaving tomorrow i know i acted like afc on the last day but she is a great friend of mine, should I go full friend mode like in the past or is she playing with me.? Sorry for long Post What did i do wrong here? |
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| Author: | snubby (aka Zen) [ Sat Sep 03, 2011 3:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Need Help on this one! |
Quote: now she calls me a lot of times to talk about her relantioship or me about my pickups, she pyschology i ask her sometimes advices on situation on girls,
Please don't take this the wrong way, but this is the best way I can explain it. You are her girlfriend. And just like her other girlfriends (who are actual girls, unlike you), she can be sexually attracted, but feel that this is taboo. Except part of her brain says, "yes, he's my girlfriend, but he's also a cute guy, so it's actually ok to make out with him," but then she does and thinks, "wait, this is my girlfriend, what am I doing?"Make sense? This behavior will never end. She will always be stuck in this conundrum. It seems like the main thing that works to flip her switch into make out mode is to push her away, and while that will get you some nookie, it's not going to solve the overall bizarre relationship you're in with her. Personally, I'd push her away and if she wants time with you make it clear what getting together with you means. Instead of, "let's get together tonight" or "let's hang out" it should be "I'm pretty busy tonight, and I'm a little pissed off at you. If you're coming over, it better be for a make-up fuck." If the response is negative, be non-reactive. "Ok, well, have a nice trip back. Bye." If it's positive, well, then it's on. |
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| Author: | Snake Doctor [ Sat Sep 03, 2011 3:37 pm ] |
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Ty snubby, what you told me I kind suspect as much. Today she sents a txt, to meet up for last goodbye . told her if i had time i would meet her She gives me two difernet hours one with our friends and one alone . SHe then says she will miss me and is crying wtf, a girl who ignore me last night. Im kinda piss but i cant show it, if i could i would skip this , but probably will see her on friend times, so she doesnt think she has an efect on me. |
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