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Author:  GoldDust [ Fri Sep 02, 2011 1:08 am ]
Post subject:  I Give up with this f**king thing!
I have been the most dedicated motherfucker to this game and now I fucking give up. I go out, look the best I probably can, act the best I can and still no results, this whole game makes us fantasise about shit we'll never have and dream about what only these natural alpha males have that we don't. I feel like absolutely giving this shit up and living a single life because i don't give a fuck anymore. I try and try and still a girl i'm gaming ends up making out with an ugly bastard and I don't know why. All this game does is make me stress and show me how I can't get the chicks. I mean I've been trying since i was 14 but now I give up. Bye.
Author:  Tidy [ Fri Sep 02, 2011 1:14 am ]
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You're clearly doing something wrong then?
Care to post a fairly standard routine that you use?
Author:  GoldDust [ Fri Sep 02, 2011 1:16 am ]
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I dunno mate, I'm not really into using routines. I force IOIs by pointing and smiling at a girl but nothing else. They usualy turn away smiling and telling their friends about this guy checking them out (me) but I have no idea what i do wrong
Author:  skills360 [ Fri Sep 02, 2011 1:22 am ]
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i winner never quits, a quitter never wins... First you need to learn game, you do not even know what you are doing wrong, how the fuck you are going to fix it, you got to fail to succeed, but you do not even know what you are doing wrong... You just go a temporary set back cause a girl made out with an "ugly dude" ugly to you not to her, women do not fall for guys with the eyes is attraction.
Author:  GoldDust [ Fri Sep 02, 2011 1:25 am ]
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I know man, i fucking hate quitting, maybe i'm just fucking angry and need to chill and i'll feel differently in the morning. But i mean I've been at this for 5 years and have only had 1 makeout from it all. I'm messed up in the head. I'll maybe think clearer in the morning but right now my head is all over the place
Author:  snubby (aka Zen) [ Fri Sep 02, 2011 1:30 am ]
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1. how old are you
2. what are your goals (in terms of what PUA skills will get you. LTR? Quick lay?)
3. What PUA material did you primarily study and use.
4. Can you open? Build rapport? at what point do you get blown out?
5. How does it feel when you're in a set? Are you inside your head or in the moment?
6. What is something you do in your non-Game life that you really enjoy, that makes you happy, that you're good at?
Author:  Tidy [ Fri Sep 02, 2011 1:48 am ]
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By the sound of it you're not opening, you're just making it known to her that you like her. watch some of Gambler's videos or read up on some Mystery Method stuff and simply do EXACTLY what it tells you to do. At the moment it sounds like anything would be a plus.

Get posture and body language right. Are you slouched? Are you leaning in too much when you talk? Do you come over as too aggressive?

Read, Watch, learn. Do not give up.
Author:  Teknine [ Fri Sep 02, 2011 1:53 am ]
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Golddust dude just take a month off from the game. Fuck all of it for a month and enjoy yourself.

I think you're just burned out right now.

I have been there. A lot.
Author:  safety [ Fri Sep 02, 2011 2:06 am ]
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start small. i know you say you have been at it for 5 years but how many more years will you go without makeouts if you give up?

start really small, thats what i am doing SPAM and i have been doing this for two years but relapsed to afc after ltr.
so i am just basically talking to people without the intention of sleeping with women. just talk to people, old poeple fat people whatever, it will give you a high from being social and develop your ability to connect. also i would suggest you get out of clubs and do more day game.
let go of your outcome and do it for fun dude.
Author:  snubby (aka Zen) [ Fri Sep 02, 2011 2:32 am ]
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let go of your outcome and do it for fun dude.
Absolutely right. Don't attach to results. The experience is the result, not some preconceived notion of the way the interaction "should" go. It's an improvisation. You need to loosen up and get into it. It's a dance.

And definitely, get out and just be social just to be social. It's amazing how this alone can improve your self esteem, confidence, and ability to be in the moment when talking to anyone, including a good looking woman.
Author:  Slip n Slide [ Fri Sep 02, 2011 2:55 am ]
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I dunno mate, I'm not really into using routines. I force IOIs by pointing and smiling at a girl but nothing else. They usualy turn away smiling and telling their friends about this guy checking them out (me) but I have no idea what i do wrong
I hope you open them after you do this (and sometimes without doing it).

If it's not working, it's not the material you need to learn, it's the approach you need to have toward learning it. Read inner game books, my recommendation (that I got from a post in the Inner Game section) is "The Power of Now." Read things and do your best to take them to heart. Having a good mentality is the only way to make progress.
Author:  Mack 2.0 [ Fri Sep 02, 2011 3:26 am ]
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there is a common denominator here.

are you always sarging the same places?

wearing the same type of clothes?

hanging out with the same people?

always drinking? stoned?

look at your common denominators.

you are clearly doing something wrong, over and over...

once you fix it, you might open the floodgates of pussy.
Author:  GoldDust [ Fri Sep 02, 2011 10:02 am ]
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1. how old are you = 19
2. what are your goals (in terms of what PUA skills will get you. LTR? Quick lay?) = At the moment, I just want to get laid because I'm a virgin. Maybe after a LTR will be want I want.
3. What PUA material did you primarily study and use. = I started of using David Deangelo cocky funny type of stuff.
4. Can you open? Build rapport? at what point do you get blown out? = I can open now and then, still find it really difficult. Rapport building is even harder because I find it to keep a conversation going. I actually don't get blown out, I choose to LEAVE a set because I have nothing else to say.
5. How does it feel when you're in a set? Are you inside your head or in the moment? = Definetely inside my head. I think way to much when I'm trying to game a girl.
6. What is something you do in your non-Game life that you really enjoy, that makes you happy, that you're good at? = Probably just working out. Healthy body, healthy mind.
Author:  GoldDust [ Fri Sep 02, 2011 10:05 am ]
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there is a common denominator here.

are you always sarging the same places?

wearing the same type of clothes?

hanging out with the same people?

always drinking? stoned?

look at your common denominators.

you are clearly doing something wrong, over and over...

once you fix it, you might open the floodgates of pussy.
I've been to the same place for the last 3 weeks but what does going to the same place have to do with it?

Different clothes each week, I look good and feel good, believe me.

Same people yes.

I drink just enough to lubricate my social skills but not so much that i can't think straight.
Author:  GoldDust [ Fri Sep 02, 2011 10:06 am ]
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Golddust dude just take a month off from the game. Fuck all of it for a month and enjoy yourself.

I think you're just burned out right now.

I have been there. A lot.
And that is exactly what I need right now, a break. I do feel burned out. This has happened to me before but not this badly. Usually a week or 2 later i wanna get back into, maybe I need a little longer off this time.
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