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| Author: | Tr@veler [ Wed Aug 31, 2011 2:21 pm ] |
| Post subject: | What went wrong here? |
OK, so firstly the good news. I got my first number close on the third day of sarging. I walked up to a girl and asked her about sight-seeing in london, and she said she's not from here, and I asked here where shes from, and she said german. I speak german, so we chatted, and that was an instant connection. After about 5 mins she asked me whether I have facebook, and I said, just give me your number, and she put her number in my phone. The end. OK, so the other two sets I approached today didnt go so well. My second set was a two-set, and they were walking. Here's how it went. Traveler: Hey guys, quick question. What places are good for sight-seeing around here in London? HB7: Are you kidding me? (we were in Covent Garden, a major tourist area) Traveler: Well, I'm only here for a few weeks, and I wanted to get most out of London. HB7: Well there's bla, bla, bla, around the corner...blabla. Traveler: OK. Are you from London? HB7: ...I'm from outside of London. Traveler: Oh cool. Where? HB7: Blabla Traveler: Oh I have a friend from there, I've actually always wanted to go there. HB7: ...OK. We're actually going to work right now. Traveler: Oh ok...well thanks anyway! HB7: Yeah. So. They weren't really giving me a lot. But I don't want to blame it on them. It was my game. So how could I have actually gotten them interested in me? They were definitely not going to work, they were shopping. Unless they work in a store. They did stop to talk to me, and I did open over the shoulder and stood at an angle, leaned back, etc. Did I telegraph too much interest? It feels like the "I have a friend bit" seemed to really alienate her, or at least didn't get a response out of them at all. Like, some random guy telling me he's got a friend from there. I pretty much didn't know what else to say at that moment. Any ideas? |
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| Author: | anthonypham [ Wed Aug 31, 2011 7:06 pm ] |
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You know what happened? You had met a set that was not interested. And guess what? You will meet these sets again :0 part of the game. Don't blame yourself for this. |
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| Author: | Tr@veler [ Wed Aug 31, 2011 9:09 pm ] |
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Hey, thanks for the reply. Yeah, I guess they really weren't interested. But, is there any workaround for this at all in field in daygame? |
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| Author: | ProfessorX [ Wed Aug 31, 2011 9:33 pm ] |
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You could try being more interesting. You're conversation with those two is the kind of small talk you'd have with an old lady at the grocery store or a stranger in an elevator. Boring! You've got to show a little personality. |
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| Author: | ben489 [ Wed Aug 31, 2011 9:55 pm ] |
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Stop asking so many questions about them, let them open up to you. Make an interesting statement, something unexpected. Could have said "wow london is a bit overrated.." they may bite and start defending it, trying to justify it etc. Your instantly in a much better conversation where you can neg their opinions etc. and they are voluntarily participating. |
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| Author: | Tr@veler [ Wed Aug 31, 2011 10:33 pm ] |
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Thanks guys! |
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