PUA Forum :: Picking up a female friend..

I've been friends with this girl for about a year. I met her with the intention of picking her up and I got her number. I texted her and she told me oh I don't want to be deceptive but I have a boyfriend. (I work in radio) so she said I gave you my number because I thought it was radio related

Needless to say, from there on out we became good friends. I know she finds me attractive because on a few occasions I was out with her and her friends and she wouldn't leave them to be alone with me because she explicitly said she's afraid of what could happen (because she was in a relationship) and how she's never had sex with someone who's as fit as me (which I find hilarious... I'm not even that fit hahaha) plus this girls a solid 7

I respected our friendship and her relationship so I really stopped trying to advance on her. So much so, a few months back I gave her some advice because she was feeling horny and was curious if she should cheat (not necessarily with me). I gave her honest advice telling her no. Pick one or the other, discipline or regret.

Now I know either the relationship with the boyfriend is over or its on the ropes. I'm going out with her tonight. I'd like to close the sale but have any of you guys been in a situation like this before? Do you do anything differently? For example, game other girls around her and throwing the "we're just friends" in her face maybe producing some jealousy? Or just go about basic escalation/kino blah blah blah

Then again, I wonder what's a better plan... putting our platonic friendship aside and banging her or using her as a DHV and gaming other girls wherever we go?

Author:	fearless123 [ Wed Aug 31, 2011 12:09 pm ]
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I've been friends with this girl for about a year. I met her with the intention of picking her up and I got her number. I texted her and she told me oh I don't want to be deceptive but I have a boyfriend. (I work in radio) so she said I gave you my number because I thought it was radio related Needless to say, from there on out we became good friends. I know she finds me attractive because on a few occasions I was out with her and her friends and she wouldn't leave them to be alone with me because she explicitly said she's afraid of what could happen (because she was in a relationship) and how she's never had sex with someone who's as fit as me (which I find hilarious... I'm not even that fit hahaha) plus this girls a solid 7 I respected our friendship and her relationship so I really stopped trying to advance on her. So much so, a few months back I gave her some advice because she was feeling horny and was curious if she should cheat (not necessarily with me). I gave her honest advice telling her no. Pick one or the other, discipline or regret. Now I know either the relationship with the boyfriend is over or its on the ropes. I'm going out with her tonight. I'd like to close the sale but have any of you guys been in a situation like this before? Do you do anything differently? For example, game other girls around her and throwing the "we're just friends" in her face maybe producing some jealousy? Or just go about basic escalation/kino blah blah blah Then again, I wonder what's a better plan... putting our platonic friendship aside and banging her or using her as a DHV and gaming other girls wherever we go?

Author:	M2 [ Wed Aug 31, 2011 12:32 pm ]
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Quote: I've been friends with this girl for about a year. I met her with the intention of picking her up and I got her number. I texted her and she told me oh I don't want to be deceptive but I have a boyfriend. (I work in radio) so she said I gave you my number because I thought it was radio related Needless to say, from there on out we became good friends. I know she finds me attractive because on a few occasions I was out with her and her friends and she wouldn't leave them to be alone with me because she explicitly said she's afraid of what could happen (because she was in a relationship) and how she's never had sex with someone who's as fit as me (which I find hilarious... I'm not even that fit hahaha) plus this girls a solid 7 I respected our friendship and her relationship so I really stopped trying to advance on her. So much so, a few months back I gave her some advice because she was feeling horny and was curious if she should cheat (not necessarily with me). I gave her honest advice telling her no. Pick one or the other, discipline or regret. Now I know either the relationship with the boyfriend is over or its on the ropes. I'm going out with her tonight. I'd like to close the sale but have any of you guys been in a situation like this before? Do you do anything differently? For example, game other girls around her and throwing the "we're just friends" in her face maybe producing some jealousy? Or just go about basic escalation/kino blah blah blah Then again, I wonder what's a better plan... putting our platonic friendship aside and banging her or using her as a DHV and gaming other girls wherever we go? These are some big questions, but I think you answered your own question which Ill paraphrase: Would it be a bad thing if we hooked up? A: It wouldn't be the worst thing that's ever happened. But- I would manage your expectations, expect her (if you do hook up) to "try and work things out" with him so don't expect a LTR right out of the gate. I wouldn't go into this thinking you're going to full montey either. Gambler has a pretty solid BF destroyer routine though- worth checking out. If you are going for the gold, you will run the risk of destroying the friendship in the process, be- fore -warned. I would go through the entire routine, BFD, A1, A2, A3, and game her. Keep in mind- if she is attracted to you, then it is because of how you've been in the past, don't stop something that's working.

Author:	GeorgePH [ Wed Aug 31, 2011 12:40 pm ]
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In addition to what M2 said, you'll find it hard to build an LTR when she's on the rebound. So it's a question of, do you want to sacrifice a year-long friendship for what might be just a few nights of sex?

Author:	ProfessorX [ Wed Aug 31, 2011 5:40 pm ]
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Why would you bother breaking up her relationship and a good friendship for a girl you rate as a 7? Seems like a waste to me.

Author:	fearless123 [ Wed Aug 31, 2011 8:09 pm ]
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I wouldn't break up a relationship over it. I'm not even certain the friendship would be broken over it. I know the type of girl she is In any case, I've come to the conclusion that it's AFC to chase this one. Thanks.

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