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Author:  thewarrior07 [ Sun Aug 28, 2011 10:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Apparently this girl breaks all the rules.
So far the college game is easier than taking candy from a kid. Honestly it doesn't take a whole lot of game to have any of the HB8-9s walking around because the fact a have 5+ years on all the undergrads (just got back from the service) and some serious life experience. I'm shocked how easy its coming.

Opened a girl the other day and number closed. After a bit of small talk I let it simmer for 2 days. She actually texted me saying she was at a concert and wanted to keep drinking later with me.

Long story short this girl breaks all the rules you would expect from a 20 year old chick. My standard game isn't working the same.

The good: Kino, attraction, and comfort are coming easy. After one get together and a 3x kiss close I get the sense shes comfortable with me. Shes really liberal and her mind is out there. She talks about how she feels our connection and energy is good. On my way home I got a text saying she was glad we met with "!!!".

The Bad: I get a strong sense this girl is either crazy or full of shit. Perhaps not as naive as she puts off. She could also be a collector of LJBFs. She had a few male friends with her that night and no female friends. All were cool but super AFC and didn't even appear to try to game her.

The Situation: This girl is super tree huggerish for lack of a better term and her mind seems to wander. Stimulating her mind sexually is the part I'm trying to overcome. 90% of ALL my textbook game bounces right off her unlike other girls. Hard teasing and playful sexual framing are barely effective. Push pull is the only thing that even remotely works. She repeats herself and her mind moves like Charlie Sheen's interviews. After the kiss close she giggled and said shes shy but I honestly couldn't read her at all.

Anybody run into this type? WTF do I do? Qualifiers and all these techniques are not escalating as fast as any other girl I've met. My plan as of now is to assume it went well and ignore for a few days and if she opens me again fuck IDK?
Author:  EddieFews [ Sun Aug 28, 2011 10:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Apparently this girl breaks all the rules.
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So far the college game is easier than taking candy from a kid. Honestly it doesn't take a whole lot of game to have any of the HB8-9s walking around because the fact a have 5+ years on all the undergrads (just got back from the service) and some serious life experience. I'm shocked how easy its coming.
s close she giggled and said shes shy but I honestly couldn't read her at all.

Sounds like you should have no problem moving on and leaving this chick in the dust then...

Anyways, just remember girls have game too. It's not just guys. They play there games, say things and act in a way purposely to make you want them. And this chicks doing one hell of a job if she has you posting about her. They also mature a lot faster than guys which means a lot of times there game is a lot more advanced.

I did the college thing it's pretty easy. Even the geeks get laid. This chick sounds like a college tramp to me bro. Also please know that a chick can never LJBF you unless your LJBF material.

Don't stress yourself, since it's so easy just go get one of the others. She's nothing special
Author:  Don Draper [ Mon Aug 29, 2011 7:01 am ]
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You're just feeling a bit more for her because your usual tricks aren't working on this one.

But, she is NOT worth the effort.

From whatever you have described of her, she seems like someone who's a mess. Who has no idea of what she wants. And in all probability, you might be able to sleep with her once, maybe twice but you'll regret that for the amount of effort that you'll put.

If your college game is as good as you say, you should have no trouble in finding someone equally good looking or better than her, with hopefully lesser issues to deal with.

Good luck.
Author:  Zipther [ Mon Aug 29, 2011 8:48 am ]
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The school year barely started. Go run some social game, make some friends and do the college thing right. I regret letting myself be comfortable with my small social circle back then.

Whatever you do, don't waste time worrying about some random girl when there's hundreds.
Author:  Forcan [ Mon Aug 29, 2011 9:07 am ]
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I can't be sure on this one, but I recognize this behaviour. A girl i knew had BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder) had exactly the same things going on. I could not read her, she was the treehugger type (not a hippie) and had tons of "friends" around her. Also she pushes you away when you come close, and pulls you in if you go away.. I can see more comonalies, but from what you told us, this could well be it. In that case, Don Draper is right (as he is most of the time)
Author:  jurupa [ Mon Aug 29, 2011 10:04 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Apparently this girl breaks all the rules.
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Long story short this girl breaks all the rules you would expect from a 20 year old chick. My standard game isn't working the same.
Well no shit they aren't working. You are trying to game her like you do with every other girl you game. Game her not the other way around. Tho from what you have said about this girl, it may be best to uh walk away.
Author:  thewarrior07 [ Mon Aug 29, 2011 10:36 pm ]
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You guys all make perfect sense. Forcan thanks for replying cause I was hoping someone had experience with this type. Treehugger not hippie is exactly it dude. Just a total wandering mind. I can say one thing and its like she didn't hear it and just keeps talking about our energy and how we met for a reason. I'm calling it BS.

Im all into challenges and investment returns and like to lay every girl I escalate to that extent. That is why I gave 2nd thought to this one but after one day of college classes I can agree its a better investment to move on. I'm gonna say I'm busy the next time she tries to pull me in. From there ill get a read on it but otherwise no pursuit.
Author:  Mack 2.0 [ Tue Aug 30, 2011 12:39 am ]
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freeze her out for a week

then send her a text saying "there is a party in my pants, and you are invited...bring a friend"
Author:  thewarrior07 [ Tue Aug 30, 2011 1:37 am ]
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Mack are you joking or serious? Either way i like it. The freeze out was the plan. I'm 98 percent sure she'll try contacting me after I let it go a few days.
Author:  Mack 2.0 [ Tue Aug 30, 2011 3:18 am ]
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i'm dead serious.

except the "bring a friend" part (unless you are daring, lol)

she sounds like a loopy chick, she's gonna run things on her side, she's gonna toy with ya...

don't give her a chance.

just bang the chick!

she might be turned on by your bluntness and come over to ride the lovebone.
Author:  pumpington [ Tue Aug 30, 2011 5:29 am ]
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so what is going on here? your making out with her alone? will she be alone with you?, just make out for about 15 min and toy with her, then stick your hands down her pants and go to town, what is the problem? if you can get to makeout you don't need sexual framing, she will be turned on just from the making out, but most girls get turned on from sexual framing if done right, tell a girl if you dont stop doing X im going to have to bend you over that couch, pull your pants down, and fuck you for hours, if your making out and your hard put her hands down your pants, where is your problem here? usually the problem is getting the girl alone, if she will be alone, you have no problem, all in your head

say nothing don't react hold eye contact, at most smile and look away if she trys to test, she looks away 1st, if she is not feeling horny, there is only so much of that shit she can take before she is, just don't push to far into the neediness zone of hey, i want something from you land
Author:  thewarrior07 [ Tue Aug 30, 2011 7:48 pm ]
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Pumpington we haven't made out. She invited me over and she had friends over. So after I said I had to leave she wanted to walk me out. This was the first alone time we had. Multi kiss close after heavy kino. Then she tilted her head sideways, giggled, and said she's shy. The chick's mind is bat shit crazy so I can't read her well.

Another thing to add to her questionable personality I didn't mention...she claimed to have a 19 year old male roommate in her new tiny ass studio apartment with one futon. She said he's a Christian and never even kissed a girl which is why she trusts him. This could be anything from a shit test lie to a 30 year old drug dealer who pounds it nightly.
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