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| Author: | thinhman [ Sun Aug 28, 2011 6:11 am ] |
| Post subject: | New Problem. Should I go on a double date as a first date or |
Should I go on a double date or use her car? Ok, so when I'm flirting with a girl, I usually stay in the moment. I told her that I'd go hiking with her tomorrow. That's all fine. The problem is that my car is in the shop, so I can't drive her. I've never not driven a girl before or been driving by a girl on a date before, so this is a totally foreign concept to me. So... I asked my buddy (We're in college btw) is he could ask the girl he liked on a double date. After some convincing, he agreed. He's going to call her tomorrow. The answer is unknown. I need a few questions answered. 1) Am I just reading too much into this? Tonight (I met her at karaoke tonight) we stargazed and cuddled under the stars. It was nice. Then when I walked her back to her dorm, I held her hand, yet she kind of called me out on it and let go. Then when We were saying our farwells, I asked her on a hiking date. She said yes almost imediately, so I'm taking that as a good sign. So, I'm confused about the hand thing. Should I just forget about it? 2) Would it be bad to ask her to drive? Like, would she be like all weird about it? I mean, I've always driven a girl places because I guess my mom taught me to do that. Would she think I'm like a lazy freeloader if I ask her to use her car? Could you give me an example dialogue because they really help. Thanks! 3) Would it be weird to go on a double date for the first date with this girl? We're going hiking, so our destination at the end of the hike would be one semi giant rock. My friend and his date would be on one end of the rock, and I'd be on the other end with my date. Would that be weird? |
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| Author: | silverback [ Sun Aug 28, 2011 2:00 pm ] |
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1. Won't let you hold her hand? Not usually a good sign. Be careful that you don't become her good buddy. If a girl is attracted to you there really isn't any such thing as making a move too soon! At least not holding hands! Be sexual around her and make sure every aspect of your conversation leads to her thinking about sex. SEX SEX SEX!!! She needs to see you that way or you end up her good buddy! Just make sure you do it tactfully. 2. Yes absolutely ask her to drive and make sure she pays for the gas and everything. You would be amazed how much more females like freeloaders that don't give a rats ass. Its odd but true. Stop worrying about it!!! Let her drive and don't make it an issue at all. 3. Double date may not be bad but I would avoid it. Make her drive and avoid the double date. Be extra sexual and tell her how much she turns you on. The whole date you should have this vibe of "damn baby I just can't help myself" Trust me they love that!!! |
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| Author: | Defy [ Sun Aug 28, 2011 3:38 pm ] |
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Double date sets too much expectations, I don't think it's a good idea. You should have escalated things when you had her under stars. If you haven't maybe she is gonna give you a second chance. But she seems like a time waster to me. What I would do is go out hiking with her and some friends and just have fun. Without any expectations. And if you see a chance, just escalate physically. |
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| Author: | TattooToast [ Sun Dec 11, 2011 10:58 pm ] |
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| Author: | Marc [ Mon Dec 12, 2011 2:25 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: New Problem. Should I go on a double date as a first date or |
Quote: 1) Am I just reading too much into this?
No big deal. Dont read too much into it, doesnt matter - You are still in.Tonight (I met her at karaoke tonight) we stargazed and cuddled under the stars. It was nice. Then when I walked her back to her dorm, I held her hand, yet she kind of called me out on it and let go. Then when We were saying our farwells, I asked her on a hiking date. She said yes almost imediately, so I'm taking that as a good sign. So, I'm confused about the hand thing. Should I just forget about it? Quote: 2)
Since you already have all these reservations then dont it. Just ask your friend to drive. Would it be bad to ask her to drive? Like, would she be like all weird about it? I mean, I've always driven a girl places because I guess my mom taught me to do that. Would she think I'm like a lazy freeloader if I ask her to use her car? Could you give me an example dialogue because they really help. Thanks! I've had girls drive me to dates before. I just told them something like "Hey, I'm looking forward to tonite, but a little tired to drive, you mind swinging by my place" If its not weird to you, it wouldnt be weird for her. Being casual about it is fine. If a girl is into you she would do it anyways. I've had that before - A girl wouldnt reject a guy for not driving her to the date. Quote:
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NO, its not weird. Again, if its not weird to you it wouldnt be weird for her. Would it be weird to go on a double date for the first date with this girl? We're going hiking, so our destination at the end of the hike would be one semi giant rock. My friend and his date would be on one end of the rock, and I'd be on the other end with my date. Would that be weird? In future, having one on one time with the girl is MUCh better. You want all her attention focused on you. |
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