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| Author: | Tudor1976 [ Tue Aug 23, 2011 12:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Hooking the set and moving to comfort phase |
Ok guys here is the problem. I open a set one way or the other. I engage all of the set in the interaction. I ignore the target for a bit, neg her, DHV, make her qualify to me, then give her attention, I touch her, I tease her. All that is OK and I don't think I have a question about those. BUT.... I cannot hook the set. Everytime the same thing. I don't know how to hook the set. And as a result I get stuck in the Attraction phase. I mean it is crazy. In the past I would be really nervous about talking to women in clubs, bars etc. And now that I can get past AA I get stuck in the Attraction zone. Please help!!!!!! |
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| Author: | TheFreshPrince [ Tue Aug 23, 2011 5:42 pm ] |
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What usually works well is commenting on people in the group. You're a stranger who they don't know, but if you start talking about how one of them laughs funny or your target dresses weird or they guy at the other end of the table must spend 8 hours a day at the gym, etc, make sure it's stuff they'll agree with, and they'll feel like you know them somewhat and are a part of the group. Be careful with this. Too much, and you come across as insulting. Try just doing a cold read of every person at the table, and the whole group will be laughing along with how right you are about that person! |
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