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| Author: | proofray [ Mon Aug 15, 2011 7:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | TOPICS DULL OUT CONVERSATION |
ok I can open sets, get girls to laugh and even flirt or neg. I notice that about 10mins in the girls loose interest and gravitate to the nearest Jersey Shore lookalike. So when this happens I usually roll off and start another set just to have it happen again. I'm unsure what I'm doing wrong in sets to loose the attraction. I'm a bit over weight but working on it with trips to the gym 5 days a week now. I dress well just like a PUA should while sarging. I've been going solo because of the fact I want to practice more natural routines and improv any shit test coming my way. Any tips, ideas or suggestions. Feel free to ask or follow my twitter @Proofray |
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| Author: | boxerwhoplaysguitar [ Sun Aug 28, 2011 5:55 pm ] |
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Have you asked them to dance? They are at the club to have fun, (dont take this the wrong way) but not to have a conversation. Once you talk to them for however long, ask one to dance instead of chatting them up the whole time |
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| Author: | stefangreyman [ Sun Aug 28, 2011 6:49 pm ] |
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Ten minutes of conversation at a club is an eternity, especially if you are not talking one on one and you haven't found someone who just by chance loves exactly what you love: quantum mechanics? Wow, I love quantum mechanics... Your "job" is not entertainment! If you stand there trying to entertain a set, even if you are Robbin fucking Williams, it's going to die, because you will come across as desperately seeking attention/trying to win approval. The basic thing you have to do escalate--you can't wait until you are in some deep comfort zone or think she is. By then you will have lost her. Touch. Eye contact. Dancing can work, but take it as an opportunity for touch and eye contact. Be playful but let her know you are actually into her--it's the quickest way to lose a target: if she decides you are not really that into her (because you are not demonstrating it by touch/eye contact), or that you don't have to balls to go anywhere with it. The thing is you will lose her by not escalating EVEN IF she is telling herself she will say "no" at some point. You do not have to wait to isolate to start touching. You can touch more than one girl in a set. In spite of what some girls say (the occasional autistic aside) people like to be touched! |
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