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Author:  Crosswizz [ Thu Aug 11, 2011 1:10 am ]
Post subject:  How build up the sexual tension in a conversation?

Hey there

I am a point in my game where I could build rapport and attraction rather quickly with a girl, I will always hold a girls attention when I'm talking to her and the conversations are usually always high energy.

However, I lack the ability to steer the conversation towards a sexual route to build the sexual tension, what are some good ways to do this?

Thanks

Author:  Clae [ Thu Aug 11, 2011 9:36 pm ]
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To be honest you can build sexual tension most effectively with your eyes and body language (in my opinion).

When a girl is talking or when you are talking to her try to draw a triangle with your eyes from eyes to her mouth, this focus on eye contact is very powerful, then looking at her mouth brings kissing onto her mind. You'll find that the conversation may steer itself in a more sexual direction and don't be afraid to try and kino escalate (I should really do this more also) as the conversation progresses.

Additionally, talk about what you find really sexy in a girl. Here you can kill two birds w/ one stone by laying down some criterion that the girl may feel she will have to qualify to and then perhaps note one feature of her's in that list so it gives her a slight inkling that you may be interested.

Trust me this can really escalate sexual tension, I did this last week with a girl, what I didn't realize is that she had a bf of 3 years...it works that well.

P.s. I'm new to this forum and the seduction community but I really hope my advice helps, please don't hesitate to let me know how it gets on.

Peace,
Clae

Author:  IvanDyn [ Wed Sep 21, 2011 11:00 am ]
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Good point Clea.

My suggestion would be: if you have sex on your mind and are not ashamed about it, you can "slip" your visions subtely into the conversation by making hints and suggestions at sexual references. Or just be direct and say EXACTLY what's on your mind :) (but that's also advanced).


Hope this helps.

Ivan

Author:  F00tlong [ Wed Sep 21, 2011 7:29 pm ]
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It doesn't matter what subject you talking about you can still build sexual tension. It's all in the body language and voice tones, tringular gazing is just one of the many things.

Try slowing down what you're talking about..literally just start speaking slower.
Trail off...and just leave a silence for a couple seconds while maintining eye contact. Work your way into her bubble, slowly of course, try and get your knee to touch her leg, or have your arms touching, while you're rambling on about wtv
talk softly, play with her hand in wtv way, look at her rings, bracelets wtv and ask her about them but it's not the time to be energetic.

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