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| Author: | elspru [ Mon Jul 11, 2011 6:23 pm ] |
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I'm all peacocked with a pirate outfit, and fems even hail me to get attention. It happens so often that sometimes I just keep going on my bike, or do you think I should make an effort and stop, go up to them and talk? Also they often eye me and such, I've opened single and groups of girls. Have talked to some for hours, and given them my card and gotten their contact info. Only one fem called me, and I'm not sure she was mentally stable. I opened 9 fems yesterday, 2 of which I met previously. 2 of the fems, one previous 1 new, noted that me talking about spirituality, magic and psychic stuff "freaked them out" or "people keep it hidden" one of them gave me a fake number. So I'd like to know what might be some better topics or mundane things. Though honestly I think it might be cause for those two fems I already was feeling jealous about my partner so maybe my vibes were off. one of the main issues with that though is I'm a paranormal magician, don't have "official" work, and don't do any magic "tricks". Though I could talk about my other projects like boat, garden, and stuff like that. What do you think I should start with, spiritual or factual, or should be a balance? Except for the two all of them seemed all smiles and happy much of the time. I opened a set of 3 yesterday, but forgot to look at the third one, and she kept getting up to leave and then sitting back down, once I mentioned it they told me it was "nice meeting me", though they were really jovial and when I was leaving for the night waved and smiled. So would eye contact be enough, or should I engage everyone in the conversation? I was talking to girl across the table, sitting next to the one I liked, twice. Another sticking point, is what do I do, if the fem I like gets up and goes some place, i.e. get drink of water, should I follow, or keep cool? cause one fem (christina) did it twice, and then she left for a while, I was thinking perhaps it's a scene change opportunity though I dono. Also I'm in an open-relationship with a fem I've been with for years, so I have a tendency to say "we" a lot. should I simply hide the fact I'm in a relationship by using I and neglecting to mention it? one of my goals is to get both of them at a time, though I guess I have to get laid with the new one beforehand. Though really my main problem is that I just talk and talk, and though I've done the touching shoulder, hand, and hugging. So far I haven't kissed anyone or "changed scene". Is there ever a time I should just be quiet? I know there is that "blah blah blah" song by kesha, do other fems feel like that? I've been noticing a lot of "quiet guys" getting fems somehow. what's with that? My partner is ahead of me, she already kissed and and changed scene, went next-door, to park, and his place where they dry humped. Though her strategy was to focus on a single guy. And he's the quiet type. Whereas since I was opening just about every fem and set, I think some of them got insulted, since I would leave looking for more to open. I was also feeling some intense heart-emotions like jealousy, which was interfering with my game, so I left early, any tips? So should I also be more focused on the set that is successful? Christina and her friend Jess seemed really happy to have me next to them, I sang and danced along with them at their seats, and they liked my facts. Christina possibly even poked me, since I turned around and there was no one there. it confused me though, so I got up to look around. what should have I done? |
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| Author: | elspru [ Mon Jul 11, 2011 11:58 pm ] |
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you know what I realized that really the reason was, that I was never interested in kissing or pursuing them any further. I'm only physically attracted to my partner. we've closed the relationship. |
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| Author: | TheFreshPrince [ Tue Jul 12, 2011 12:19 am ] |
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Welcome to the forum! And congratulations on deciphering yourself what the problem is. Unless that's a cop-out. If it's not, then good job on already finding a girl you couldn't want more from!
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