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Author:  Genium [ Tue Jul 05, 2011 6:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Girls losing interest everytime?!
Ok, so virtually EVERY girl I've met and got tight with, i end up in fwb relationships with and this is what I want. BUT, about a two to three months into every one, the girl loses interest and we hang out less and she sees her other friends more often, even tho I probably provide her with the best oral sex ;)

So I'm wondering how I can reverse this trend? I'm sick and tired of it. Do I need to start ignoring them sometimes and not always being available to them? I appreciate any advice, thanks guys!
Author:  SiNfUl [ Tue Jul 05, 2011 7:09 pm ]
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Being available all the time is the first step in the WRONG direction. Are you trying to spend every waking moment with them, calling to much or texting every day, constantly giving them attention and compliments? Do you give in when she gets b*tchy or do you tell her to chill the f*ck out? Are you doing fun things together?

Things to think about...
Author:  Genium [ Tue Jul 05, 2011 7:27 pm ]
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Being available all the time is the first step in the WRONG direction. Are you trying to spend every waking moment with them, calling to much or texting every day, constantly giving them attention and compliments? Do you give in when she gets b*tchy or do you tell her to chill the f*ck out? Are you doing fun things together?

Things to think about...
Now that I'm looking back on how I used to act, basically,
1- I was always available to them, saying "whenever you call girl ill roll up". Which is baaad now I realize!
2- I only see them on average, once a week. So im not with them a lot, but when i am we have a lot of fun.
3- I used to call them like once every 2 weeks, IF even that, but texted them like every two days with conversations, not short "hello, lets meet up" type texting.
4- when were out I still make little negs and game them a tiny bit, but I give them a lot of attention. I don't compliment a lot, and I actually think I should compliment more.
5- maybe I'm very lucky or just havent been with a buttload of woman, but i havent had any b*tching, we sorta have disagreements sometimes. If I did encounter it, I would definitely be telling her to chill the **** out.

One of my girls just texted me earlier today, but I decided to change and I haven't texted her back, I NEED to convey the fact that I have other important things in my life and that I don't NEED her. Any tips on that?

Thanks for the FAST reply!
Author:  SiNfUl [ Wed Jul 06, 2011 2:56 pm ]
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It all comes down to one word...Challenge. You have to constantly remain a challenge if you want to keep women flocking around you. Women loose interest when things get routine....like calling every 2 days for general conversation.

Letting women know that you don't NEED them is the right mindset to have, but you have to keep them intrigued if you want them to stick around.

1. Don't be available all the time.
2. Make plans with your friends instead of them.
3. Don't be quick to respond to text messages.
4. Don't text unless it's to communicate a place and time to meet up.
5. Express your sexual desires in a cool alpha male manner, then back off. This shows them that you have CONTROL...a very appealing quality in a woman's eyes.
6. Push/pull
7. C&F
8. If you must text, keep it vague and short.

The list goes on. I'm sure there are plenty of other guys on here that can add to my list.
Author:  TheeMikeyK [ Sat Jul 16, 2011 5:06 am ]
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Sinful really hit the nail on the head.

My four rules of thumb are:

U-npredictable
U-ncontrolable
C-hallenging
D-ominant
Author:  IvanDyn [ Thu Sep 29, 2011 2:35 pm ]
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Do you have a purpose in life? Something that is more important to you than anything else? As said before, women like a man who is a challenge. If you have a purpose you automatically become a challenge, because you lead the direction of you life (and she follows).

Also, it seems from your previous post that you actually don't have much contact with them. They probably lose interst because they don't invest enough energy in you (and as you know with women, their attention span is not that long).

Think about it.
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