How do you make a girl want to see you, without asking/ being an AFC
Thanks, Blue
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| Author: | DannyBlue [ Sun Jul 03, 2011 4:23 pm ] |
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How do you make a girl want to see you, without asking/ being an AFC Thanks, Blue |
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| Author: | mickeyjackson21 [ Sun Jul 03, 2011 4:36 pm ] |
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after you have the girl attracted to you and built rapport, here's how to make sure that you can get a definite number close and afterwards ensure a date in the future. the way to ask a girl out is by 'offering' not asking permission, never ask "Do you want to go out tonight?" or "will you go out with me?" or "so what time are you free tomorrow?". They are all questions which AFCs do. they make a guy sound needy, desperate, dependent on doing something with her. so before offering a date, let her know how busy and sociable you are. girls want guys who are difficult to get. usually in rapport with girls, to make sure she does not flake on u after the first meeting, there's a pua principle called 'seeding'. this is when u in plant an invitation in the conversation with her but u havent actually invited her. for example, you could say that "im thinking of going to this really cool bar sometime next week which i heard about". now usually when a guy mentions to a girl about going to a bar, club or party that u know, the girl will always expects the guy to automatically invite her. but what you would do is just to mention the party or the bar and continue on the conversation. this will catch the girl off guard and the girl will be thinking "hey, this guy is pretty cool (depending on the attraction and rapport), but he has just mentioned this party but why is he not asking me out?". she will think this and will be more compelled and desperate for you to ask her and she realises that she needs to work in order to get the invitation. women want to go to things that are hard to get into, exclusive and even more if they are told they cant go. people always want to go to things when they have been told they cant go. sounds so forbiden and interesting. dont be in the position to be waiting for a girl to call you, women are lazy or busy but definitely unreliable. you make the contact. but when u contact, dont sound like you are too eager to see her, bad sign to show that ur desperate. in between texting a girl, act like u dont care if she ever replies back. i know it sounds crazy, but it does not feel good waiting, checking ur phone every so often seeing if the girl replies. have the frame of mind that u dont care about a reply, then u will feel less anxious, and more focused on ur game. Hope that i have helped. happy gaming dude |
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| Author: | DannyBlue [ Sun Jul 03, 2011 4:40 pm ] |
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Cheers man, I think that I am meant to wait for her to contact me? That's what other PUAs say. |
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| Author: | Mr. E [ Sun Jul 03, 2011 4:52 pm ] |
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Quote: Cheers man, I think that I am meant to wait for her to contact me? That's what other PUAs say.
Thats not really true. Girls want a guy who knows what he wants and goes after it. You should ask her out and be the man, she doesnt want to have to make the first move. Theres a difference in asking a girl out and being needy. Not asking her out when you want to is AFC.Good luck man |
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| Author: | mickeyjackson21 [ Sun Jul 03, 2011 4:59 pm ] |
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No. You're suppose to contact her first. build rapport and then ask her out. |
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| Author: | DannyBlue [ Sun Jul 03, 2011 5:01 pm ] |
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Okay, thanks, I think there's a small margin between being needy, and being a man she desires. When should I ask her out and where? 'cos I rang her last night, so I don't wanna seem too desperate to see her. |
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| Author: | mickeyjackson21 [ Sun Jul 03, 2011 5:05 pm ] |
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if you rang her last night, leave today as a break so call/text her tomorrow. |
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| Author: | Mr. E [ Sun Jul 03, 2011 5:07 pm ] |
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Quote: Okay, thanks, I think there's a small margin between being needy, and being a man she desires.
To girls theres a Large margin between being needy and being a man she desires. Girls can tell right away if your coming off needy so dont be needy tell yourself who cares if i get this girl theres thousands more out there she should be lucky to have you not the other way around. And for the second question do you know what she likes to do and what she hasnt done such as skydiving, jetskiing shit like that. However if you already called her wait a few days call her again if she doesnt answer on to the next one.
When should I ask her out and where? 'cos I rang her last night, so I don't wanna seem too desperate to see her. |
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| Author: | DannyBlue [ Sun Jul 03, 2011 5:10 pm ] |
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Thanks dude, but I live in the North of England there's barely anything to do here! Once I get a good double bed it should be fine though 
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| Author: | Mr. E [ Sun Jul 03, 2011 5:47 pm ] |
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haha who needs a double bed bang her in your car son you dont need a bed to lay this girl. You got this man. |
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