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Author:  nethead [ Fri Jun 10, 2011 4:23 am ]
Post subject:  fb's only sticking point (i want a gf) but whats the purpose
i don't have too much of a problem getting girls which i do on a consistent basis and im happy with although it could improve..

my sticking point is they only turn to fb's

i want a girlfriend

here is my problem... i meet a girl, i create attraction, comfort all that good stuff and i most always have sex with them within a few times of going out or on the first time i meet them.. but none of them ever turn into more than a friends with benefits relationship.

i dont get it! i have a of girls that give me ass consistently but they not interested in a relationship just friends

i was thinking about it today and it also brought me to another question.. which might help me figure out my sticking point.

whats the purpose of a relationship?
Author:  Midnightmorning [ Sat Jul 23, 2011 5:30 pm ]
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Why do you want a girlfriend? Girlfriends are just the beginning steps to being committed to one person for the rest of your life, then marriage then kids and family. Which brings in the fact that you now have to support yourself, your girlfriend and eventually a family and whatever... I'd say keep gaming (and having many friends, with or without benefits, is never bad ;) until you find someone you're willing to do all these selfless things for and vise versa, don't confuse love with lust, the confusion rips lives apart all the time

My 2 cents
Author:  IvanDyn [ Thu Sep 29, 2011 2:29 pm ]
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My guess is that it's because of the "vibe" you're sending out. Girls don't see you as a boyfriend. Yes, they are attracted to you and they want to have sex, they are probably sensing that you are not the kinda guy that wants to be with one girl. Probably you have some kind of inner conflict about realtionships (it's ALWAYS because of an inner conflict).

Be honest with yourself and ask youself this quetion: why wouldn't you want to get into a relationship? I am SURE there are plenty of reasons. Once you are aware of them, you can start from there.

Hope this helps
Ivan
Author:  Aprovato [ Wed Oct 05, 2011 8:05 am ]
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Go buy a minivan. Haha I'm just kidding. Chics are probably attracted to you, but if its a girlfriend you are looking for, first I would suggest being more selective with your targets (I don't mean this in a negative way), second project that you are looking for something more than a FB - (aka someone she has fun with but doesn't necessarily want to be seen as being associated with in front of her friends for example).
How I would approach this: First find a chic that you think would make a good gf, then start hanging out with her more during the the day, more in public, take her places, like the park, out on the town, introduce her to your friends...basically...keep her around. It doesn't sound like the "game" part of it is your problem right now, but once you do get a gf, maintaining a relationship is a whole other ballgame in and of itself.
-A
Author:  Samurai209 [ Wed Oct 05, 2011 10:23 am ]
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Honestly? The best thing to do is stop trying.

Enjoy being single, and meeting new people. Its always when you least expect that you meet someone cool, and despite how much you are enjoying being single, you can see yourself giving that up for a relationship with them.

Try to ease up on getting the girl as a goal and just focus on fun. Trust me, it will work.
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