First off, hello all. I've been a member for a while but have been busy. The site and the members have been a great help to me on several occasions, so I thought I would try to help others out a bit.
Sometimes we get so caught up in the game and PURSUING girls that we forget to pay attention to what and HOW girls are saying things, and the fact that they just might be pursuing US.
By no means am I a mPUA. In fact, what spurred me to add this information was an EPIC FAIL on my part.
Here is the story. Maybe this will help some of you.
I was at work alone. I was busy working when HB10 comes in and ask for directions. I was distracted by my task and did NOT run ANY game whatsoever. I gave her directions, and she hung around a bit looking to buy some things.
Another girl comes in and is getting ready to check out. By this time HB10 is chatting me up about a new something or other that is opening up on the beach.
HERE IS WHERE NOT PAYING ATTENTION KILLED ME!
She was standing with a pen in her hand and saying that I should check out the event she mentioned. Busy with the other customer, I FAILED to realize she was ASKING ME out. Needles to say as she was leaving I realized what was going on, and I said something really really stupid like "stop back in". Like I said, FAIL.
So there is my humiliation for you all to read.
The moral of the story is this: ALWAYS PAY ATTENTION!! Even when you aren't trying to run game! As we progress, the game happens naturally and we sometimes aren't aware that we are even playing! Even if we are an AFC, Girls sometimes pursue us, and they are more SUBTLE.
Thanks to everyone who has helped me, and maybe this will help someone with their game!
