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Author:  Jigar9529 [ Fri May 20, 2011 10:20 am ]
Post subject:  Keep getting one-itis.. again and again and again
This has been a consistent pattern as long as i can remember. Any girl I get to know or hang out with on a one on one basis, I start thinking developing a one-itis for her. It happens every time, and I go through the shitty consequences after, over and over again. Any advice to break the pattern would be greatly appreciated.
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Fri May 20, 2011 11:20 am ]
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Do you think this would be happening if you were fucking 2 or 3 different girls and had 5-10 awesome female friends you hung out with all the time?

There's your answer.
Author:  Jigar9529 [ Sat May 21, 2011 12:02 am ]
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Ryan Oceros
Posted: Fri May 20, 2011 11:20 am Post subject:
Do you think this would be happening if you were fucking 2 or 3 different girls and had 5-10 awesome female friends you hung out with all the time?

There's your answer.
Yeah, I understand what you're saying, but I'm having trouble just finding 1 girl to fuck. That's hard enough thing to do. I have several female friends who are hot, but that's all they are, just friends. I can't seem to change a regular encounter into a sexual one.
Author:  Fragnance [ Sat May 21, 2011 1:15 am ]
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Stop acting like a victim i guess first of all.

if oneitis is your problem, then find more women, game them till you crash.

Expand your social circle, bring in more women. Ryan gave the best advice anyone possibly can.

The Game isn't about The One. This isn't Matrix, you ain't Morpheus and she ain't Neo.

I too remember being that way, and I still do.

1. My oneitis used to stem from the insecurity that I wouldn't be able to attract another chick or there isn't another chick like this one. But believe me, if you can't then hope, there is always many someones better than this one.

2. Second, i gave myself so many oneitis that it became a second nature. Whenever I met a hot beautiful sexy chick, I knew i would get oneitis, i simply ignored it. In the beginning it lasted few weeks, and with practice it now lasts just a few minutes.
Author:  Fragnance [ Sat May 21, 2011 1:20 am ]
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One thing i've been trying lately with female friends that I know i've stuck in the friend zone with, is that whenever i meet them, i make it transparent that i've come to flirt with you. and uptill now i've never been rejected..

that way two things happen, or what i think should happen, first of all the frustration about impressing the one is reduced if sexual communication is what you are looking for.. second, you get more comfortable with the female friends you already have.. third, you get a chance to get out of the friend zone, and according to her see where things lead, but you already know where to lead 'em :P

the positive side of this is, she knows you are a friend, and you might never freak her out because of the image she has of you, so no rejection, but as always, know thy limits.
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