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Author:  Jester.01 [ Mon May 09, 2011 7:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Inner Game Problems
Hey guys,

So I've been out working within the social scene for a couple months now (armed with knowledge from this site and other sources), and I've experienced quite a bit of success up until recently.

In March, my gf of 3 years broke up with me, and it put me through a bit of grief, but I figured if I followed the 10 girls/one-itis rule, this lingering grief would go away and I could continue my life free of emotional baggage once and for all. However, I just got to my 10th girl, and all I can say is that the mixed emotions from my previous relationship have only gotten stronger, and are killing my inner game when I go out.

I guess what I'm asking is, what do I do to get rid of my emotional baggage and move on so I can continue to game in an effective manner, and more importantly return to a healthy lifestyle?
Author:  blue Jesus [ Tue May 10, 2011 12:17 am ]
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Find a good freind and talk it out, a long deep conversation with somebody who can really listen. It will help you deal with all these mixed emotions. Just get them out in the open, write them down if you have to, think it out and talk it over.
This will tell you were you are. You might decide to give you and your girlfreind another chance or realise she really isn't worth being hung up over her.

If going out isn't helping it cause manic defense mechanismes don't work for, think about what has always helped you feel better, or what activites you like doing, and do them, it should help.
Author:  Jester.01 [ Tue May 10, 2011 1:08 am ]
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Thanks for the advice, I appreciate it and will give it a go! My best friend is in Greece right now for a week so I'll try the other things you mentioned (doing things I enjoy, etc.) for the meantime, and let you know how it goes :)
Author:  AFCdego [ Tue May 10, 2011 7:02 am ]
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I condone everything blue Jesus said, and found the writing out or getting the feelings out really helps, but I'd also add that I found it very helpful to try and focus on one other girl rather then multiples of 10 or whatever for about a month after breaking up or so.
Preferably one who is very different to your ex and it almost seems as though as time passes you realise her better qualities and the ones you are attracted to, the attractiveness of your ex melts away. (so preferable choose a girl who is better personality-wise and still attractive).
This helped me immensely, some may argue but they can shove it :).
Author:  blue Jesus [ Tue May 10, 2011 11:16 pm ]
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Dego, man, you scared me!
Condone means you disgree. you support what i m saying, and i thank you for that.
Author:  PurePlaya [ Wed May 11, 2011 3:48 am ]
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Dego, man, you scared me!
Condone means you disgree. you support what i m saying, and i thank you for that.
"Condone" means to agree with or support.

"I do not condone my teammates use of performance enhancing drugs" said the baseball player.

I hear people misuse this word all the time.
Author:  AFCdego [ Wed May 11, 2011 6:34 am ]
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Dego, man, you scared me!
Condone means you disgree. you support what i m saying, and i thank you for that.
hahaha as PurePlaya said it actually means support as said above, but don't feel embarrassed, like PurePlaya also said, heaps of people misuse it and I was one of them and when I finally was corrected I felt I had to use it just as much correctly to make up for my wrongdoings....
Author:  blue Jesus [ Thu May 12, 2011 7:23 pm ]
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Haha! jokes on me!
Didn't think i'll be learning english here but hey, i'll take what i can get.
Cheers guys!
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