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Author:  g_lo87 [ Tue May 03, 2011 8:18 pm ]
Post subject:  From booty call to LJBF

So, I have been hooking up with this girl for about 2 months now
we are F buddies pretty much, however it seems that it is always on her terms when we do hook up.

We have hung out a couple of times and not had sex, we went to lunch and then dinner. But she doesnt text me all that much and when she does, I definitely turn into an AFC. I guess I have oneitis.

I need to be back in control, any help? Somebody with the same issue?

Author:  F. [ Tue May 03, 2011 11:27 pm ]
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You need to work on your frame, inner game is everything.

You have to see yourself as a sexual confident alpha male who can get sex whenever he wants and act accordingly.

My advice is :
- You should have been $sexually agressive the times you hung out and didn't have sex (eye contact, kino, etc) you should check out Gamblers Stealth Seduction and 60 years of challenge for that.
- Be a challenge, you're too available, learn to play hard to get, do some push pull
- Don't be afraid to lose her and show it to her.
- Have other women in your life.

Author:  sovetcke [ Thu May 05, 2011 2:37 am ]
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Some girls are there for casual sex with no strings attached, they are usually girls who have low self esteem towards relationship, and i noticed that this is what you want from her.

by going emotional on this type of girls, will just purely scare them away.

ask yourself, do you Really want a relationship with her, or it's just because you convinced yourself that you can't find another girl ?

If you really do want a relationship with this type of casual sex girl, then you'll need to turn the tables by making her chase you, and you do this by being the one who wants the no strings attached casual relationship, she will then wonder "Why the hell he does not want me more?"

and don't get mad because she is busy and does not always have time for you, she has other things in her life.

Author:  Infamous110 [ Thu May 05, 2011 2:48 am ]
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Start saying no.

Wimpy people can't say no. Needy people can't say no. She will not like you saying no.

For the record I don't see the LJBF here and would be inclined to fill my time with other people, helping the above and your other problems.

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