Hi all, this is my first post here; although I've been lurking around these forums for quite a bit. Much of the stuff here has been incredibly useful, but now I'm posting because I've struck a brick wall ><
Uhhm, basically there's this certain girl I would meet on weekday mornings, it's something like a small scale social gathering every morning and she's usually the first person to come and I'm the second person so usually we would converse quite a bit.
Recently she hasn't been exactly too friendly with me; like she wasn't going as early to the meeting place anymore, etcetc so I thought maybe I was doing something wrong that was irritating her. I then sort of came later to the place and then we don't talk as much anymore.
Then, this morning I brought a friend of mine along to the gathering 30 minutes later then usual, and the girl like just said "Hi" while not even looking at me; I wasn't even sure what she was doing so I just softly returned the salutation and just talked to the friend I brought over.
After the meeting, my friend started telling me that actually I was showing this girl signs of rejection like I wanted to create some sort of distance between us, and she was showing the face like "why is he talking to everyone except me?" which left me quite confused.
Weird girl. But she's someone I like. A lot.
So, is there any way I can like reconvey to her my interest to her? Because from the way I see it, I've pulled back too much that she's losing interest already.
Any sort of physical escalation trick would really be helpful as well, or maybe even a way I can break the sort of weird barrier I've unknowingly set up between us.
Sorry for the huge wall of text.
Help really appreciated here >.< Thanks~
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