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| Author: | Chase101 [ Tue Apr 19, 2011 9:16 am ] |
| Post subject: | One devilish sticking point.. |
This is something that has haunted me through my entire life! I am a naturally anxious individual and I have ALWAYS suffered from approach anxiety, and shyness around attractive women or potential kiss-closes. I have improved a lot at this as I became better looking, lost weight, started going to the gym and bought some nice clothes. But here is where I am still having trouble: I care wayyyyy too much. I usually have no problem getting a girl hooked, but when I do I act too protective or too there to actively push & pull. So I escalate up to a certain level with a number-close, kiss-close, high levels of kino, but then when I feel there is a down or after we kissed I feel as though as I should be letting the girl come after me and seek my attention. However, I stay there and I let things become stale. Anyone got any advice? I guess I become anxious and run out of things to say AFTER I've closed. Yesterday night for instance, I kiss-closed this girl I had been cooking up for a few days already. I got her number and I was gaming her through texts and FB (with my forms of push & pull). After I kissed her, she became extremely awkward after a while and said her dad was picking her up soon. So I took her outside and all he friends were standing around, and I was just standing next to them like another one of the group of friends. When we said bye it was like a friend bye and there she went.. extremely weird. Anyway, when she got weird I should have let her come and find me when she sorted her shit out (BTW I popped the "how would you feel if you kissed me" and it worked wonders after kino was established). Basically the main thing is: how do you keep her interested and hooked after the kiss close? |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Sat Apr 23, 2011 11:31 am ] |
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Sounds like the broke the tension by kissing her And she got ASD, This is kinda of still a SP of mine also, when I usedto make out I'd just kiss and kiss until she gets bored Now I kiss, and I keep my face in her face space ,as if I could keep kissing her if I wanted to,but I choose to not to (keeping the tension) KEEP THE TENSION |
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