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| Author: | PurePlaya [ Sun Feb 27, 2011 9:49 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Guidance Needed for Understanding Time |
My biggest sticking point is time. I seem to do a fairly good job of approaching, building attraction, generating physical familiarity with kino... My problem is after I take girls out or even meet them and get a phone number I seem to hinder all chances I had by blowing up her phone too much. I'm not talking about texting 20 times a day or any level of stalkerness. I do seem to have a problem with thinking about a chick too much and then sabotaging myself by seeming needy or clingy via too much telephone contact. It seems like I do a great job building attraction and then I screw up the idea of getting the girl to chase me. I generally wait 3-4 days after a first date before I contact the girl again, but that seems to be the point of understanding time ends. Where can I find some info about how much time I should wait after she texts me or calls before I respond? How often should I make any contact with a girl? Do you guys generally have a rule for only contacting maybe once a week until you've gone on a few dates or really establish your position with a girl? Any help would be appreciated. Thanks! |
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| Author: | PurePlaya [ Thu Mar 03, 2011 5:40 pm ] |
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Still looking for help. /bump |
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| Author: | Sexcellent [ Thu Mar 03, 2011 11:56 pm ] |
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firstly i think you should research time bridging. it's very helpful for keeping girls hooked for a day 1. second, make sure your phone/text communication is fun and interesting. a text that says "hey, what's up" is not going to yield as many results as a text that says, "last night we partied like charlie sheen!". also remember, when it comes to phone/text game, sometimes less is more. too much communication may give her the impression that you are needy and don't have a very busy lifestyle. |
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