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| Author: | reacon [ Sat Feb 19, 2011 12:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | My sticking point is i 'look' like a nice guy |
I do have success with women, not as consistently as i'd like, but i feel i've made progress. My problem is that i look like a nice guy. Girls seem to have a perception of me as a cheeky, cocky, fun guy which is what i want, i also sprinkle in a touch of seductive personality and it helps me close HB7-8's pretty easily. The problem is that with HB9-10's, i get LJBF'd a lot. They say i'm "not their type" and that i'm a nice guy and they like the bad-boy look. I don't wanna change myself by shaving my head, getting tattoos & piercings...etc cos i wanna stay true to me but why do you think this is the case? The HB7-8's dig what i'm about, but the next level girls, the HB9-10's always seem to think i'm 'nice'. Yet my personality doesn't change?! |
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| Author: | Defy [ Sat Feb 19, 2011 1:23 pm ] |
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What's wrong with change??? Shave your head if you want, your hair will grow back. You don't have to get tattoos and pierceings, but you can get rings, cool necklase, watch, scarfs, hats, whatever. I'd suggest buying a lot of accesories, and getting cool clothes that differs you from everyone else. You should avoid peackoking and looking like an insecure clown, but devolop your own style. I go for mafia gq look and I do fucking stand out (and I was as nice guy as it gets). Girls like guys who stand out, don't be afraid to stand out. You are stuck in your comfort zone thinking That's just not me. How do you know that's not you if you have never tried? Another thing. Find who you are first, and be true to yourself, not the girls. You are who you are, you are a fucking superstar and you don't care what any girl thinks of you, whether she is a HB10 or a HB7. They should adjust themselves to you, not you to them. leave your comfort zone and good luck! |
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| Author: | reacon [ Sat Feb 19, 2011 1:29 pm ] |
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What a post! You're spot on! I've been thinking of shaving my head for a while actually! It's weird tho cos girls are always saying "you're such a dick" and "piss off"...etc but in a joking way cos i'm always busting their balls!! I love the cocky and funny approach. I do boxing & mma. I'm massively into my rock n roll and play guitar. Hardly 'nice guy' traits. Yet i still get treated like a 'nice guy'! |
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| Author: | Melodical [ Sat Feb 19, 2011 1:48 pm ] |
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Disqualify them first (The HB9+s) by saying that they're not your type. They will want to know why so tell them that they are good friends but your a bad boy in bed who would be dragging them round the bedroom by their hair and you would feel guilty about it later. Bear in mind if they are HB9+s they will NEVER have heard this before. |
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