after you have the girl attracted to you and built rapport, here's how to make sure that you can get a definite number close and afterwards ensure a date in the future.
the way to ask a girl out is by 'offering' not asking permission, never ask "Do you want to go out tonight?" or "will you go out with me?" or "so what time are you free tomorrow?". They are all questions which AFCs do. they make a guy sound needy, desperate, dependent on doing something with her.
so before offering a date, let her know how busy and sociable you are. girls want guys who are difficult to get. usually in rapport with girls, to make sure she does not flake on u after the first meeting, there's a pua principle called 'seeding'. this is when u in plant an invitation in the conversation with her but u havent actually invited her. for example, you could say that "im thinking of going to this really cool bar sometime next week which i heard about". now usually when a guy mentions to a girl about going to a bar, club or party that u know, the girl will always expects the guy to automatically invite her. but what you would do is just to mention the party or the bar and continue on the conversation. this will catch the girl off guard and the girl will be thinking "hey, this guy is pretty cool (depending on the attraction and rapport), but he has just mentioned this party but why is he not asking me out?". she will think this and will be more compelled and desperate for you to ask her and she realises that she needs to work in order to get the invitation. women want to go to things that are hard to get into, exclusive and even more if they are told they cant go. people always want to go to things when they have been told they cant go. sounds so forbiden and interesting.
number close: dont say to her "Can i get your number?", be more commanding and say casually "Hey, i really need to get going, was cool meeting you, we should meet up sometime, whats your number?". this way sounds more positive, confident and you're assuming that there is going to be contact. depending on the rapport and the content of the conversation, to prevent her from not texting/calling you back, tell her you're going to place her in your phone under a nickname. usually when i tell girl when she's gets my number to put me on their phone as "Mickey Mouse" lol, this creates better impact.
dont be in the position to be waiting for a girl to call you, women are lazy or busy but definitely unreliable. you make the contact. but when u contact, dont sound like you are too eager to see her, bad sign to show that ur desperate. in between texting a girl, act like u dont care if she ever replies back. i know it sounds crazy, but it does not feel good waiting, checking ur phone every so often seeing if the girl replies. have the frame of mind that u dont care about a reply, then u will feel less anxious, and more focused on ur game.
after developing attraction and rapport on the phone or texting, you can say "it would be cool if you and i met up for a drink sometime. How about "BAR" on DATE at TIME". this sounds more commanding and confident, you're assuming there is going to be a meeting and you're making an offer not a request.
Hope that i have helped. happy gaming dude
