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| Author: | Keksman [ Wed Jan 19, 2011 11:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Shedding the player vibe |
So, I have identified a sticking point. When I go out sarging, a lot of targets will label me a player/manwhore - that usually means they say just that to me. True, I cast my net often, but I do not cast it wide. What's more, I regularly get approached by random guys who wanna sarge with me. Some say so, others imply it. And as much as I've overcome my sticking point, it makes the PU unnecessarily difficult. So my question, what are some things to watch, to avoid, or to start doing? Not that I want to change myself, but I do want to be able to turn the "player" vibe off. Lately, I've adopted the cute, innocent little boy frame to counteract and create a tension to the player vibe that shines through. Here's a little bit about me and my game. I'm very attractive, in solid shape, fashionably dressed, well educated, got a prestigious job, have lots of "interesting" hobbies, and I've traveled a bunch - plus one or two other aces up my sleeve. My inner game is rock solid, and I have no problems befriending or intriguing just about anyone, wherever I go. Advice from experience would be appreciated, because, as stated, I want to know how to turn off the player persona. I'll also have a wing who's noticed all of this come out with his girl and dissect my game real time towards that end. |
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| Author: | Keksman [ Thu Jan 20, 2011 12:47 am ] |
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Quote: be more humble about your sexual interest in a girl
What do you mean by be more humble? I am quite direct about my intentions and normally create sexual tension from the very start.
there is nothing to be ashamed about |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Thu Jan 20, 2011 12:50 am ] |
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@Keksman-I like your style and non- inner game issues. Why the hell would you want to "turn off" the player vibe!!? Women in general sense that you're alpha. Why do you want to give them the impression that you're not? Whe women label you a whore or player,it's a congruencey test 99% of the time,to see if you'd bitch out and supplicate. Toning it down would mean less possible lays. Only reason it's a sticking point for you now it's because you're running from this. And women sense that you're running from the label which makes you way less attractive in their eyes. The moment you start embracing the whore label and passing the woman's congruency test,watch her become more attracted to you. It's as if you were to wear a shirt saying,"Im the biggest man-whore in the world". Of course you're gonna be getting extra attention & attraction from girls(lol)!! But you wanna now wear a shirt which says,"Im not a whore at all". Point is,embrace the whore label 'cause it's attractive. If Im missing your point,then Im sorry for rambling on. Anyway,you seem to have solid game;I like that. |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Thu Jan 20, 2011 12:55 am ] |
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P.S.The reason you're getting the label also it's 'cause you're going too direct as Da Veed eluded to. Still the point is,even if you go direct,dont visibly be shaken if the target labels you a whore. Thats' the prob'. |
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| Author: | Keksman [ Thu Jan 20, 2011 1:37 am ] |
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Thanks, solid advice k-loc. And I'll definitely have to get that shirt made! |
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