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Author:  Arkainis [ Thu Jan 13, 2011 4:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Angry sex: Was she trying to get a rise out of me?

Alright, so I met this woman near where I work. She's an HB8 and very cool otherwise (Rock and Roll Personality, Very Hot). I met her at a restaurant for drinks with some of her friends. When I first met her, I was looking to actually practice my game (I'm pretty new to the game myself). Long story short she ends up home with me later that night (Field report will be posted soon, I promise). We had great sexual chemistry, fucked like 8 times the first night, and she started texting me and was coming over like every day for the next week. She mentioned to me early that she wasn't into a relationship (Just broke up with her boyfriend) which I was fine with because I was using this as a way of upping my game. Week passes by (Yesterday) She takes me out with her friends from her job to sing Karaoke at a local bar. We meet up with her sister and her friend (I shall call him, CockBlock1). Having a good time, but I notice that she and CockBlock1 are kinda rubbing up against eachother.
Now I understand it being casual but I was under the impression that at the very least I wouldn't have to be in the same room when this sort of shit happened, I mean not only does it piss me off, but it really Lowers my value in front of everybody else. So I get mad, and I go home after dropping off her sister.
Alright well if this was the end of the story, I would have pretty much licked my wounds and drank until I didn't feel the pain. I was going to just realize that I got into this PUA for a reason and I can't let emotions affect me that much. But this is where the story gets wierd. I get a text from her at around 3:30 AM the same night saying

For record, i'm not editiing any of this conversation, and if this DLVs myself I'm cool with it. I'm in this place to learn so please critique as much as you want.

HB8 - Home. Nothing Happened.
HB8 - Sister says I pissed you off... if she's right, I'm sorry
ME - Are you serious? Was that just an entire act just to piss me off?
ME- Cuz I am pissed, I understand a casual relationship but I don't need to be in the same room while you're getting hot and bothered with some other dude, it makes me look like a chump
HB8 - I honestly don't know right now whether yes or no is a worse answer. But the truth is no.
HB8 - It wasn't intentional. It wasn't to piss you off. And it wasn't to piss you off. And it wasn't to rub anything in your face.
HB8- It was a friend like all my other friends. I know cool people. I'd thought you'd get along. He's been interested for months and never made a move
ME - You know what the fucked up part is?
HB8 - I'm no psychic. I didn't know he'd pick tonight step up. I'm sorry
HB8 Lots of it is fucked up. Take your pick
ME - I want nothing better than to fuck you right now
HB8 - Oddly enough, me too
HB8 - And it's not the angry sex turn on
ME - I'm coming to pick you up, right now.
HB8 - I have kryptonite stuck in my head, fucking horrible karaoke
HB8 - I just put real pants back on. You'd better be serious
ME - Nice change of subject but it ain't happening right now
HB8 - Music or you picking me up
ME- Fuck the music
ME - I'm on my way
HB8 - So that's a yes to fuck the bitch angry sex that involves me finding socks?
Me - Meaning I don't give a shit what you're wearing you're coming with me
HB8 - Damn I love me some angry asshole... omw down


So yeah, she ended up at my place that night. So all the drama that just ensued with her basically grinding on somebody else, and she ended up at my house anyways. Now, this is the next morning. I'm awake after hours of angry sex and It just dawned on me that MAYBE this entire thing was planned to get a rise out of me. If so, I got played like a chump. I've been trying to figure out what the fuck was the point of this entire debate and I turn to you all, because you have to knowledge and maybe, just MAYBE, You know what the reason of this was.

-Drew

Author:  Mr_Amazing [ Thu Jan 13, 2011 4:35 pm ]
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That has absolutely nothing to do with you. Like she said, she just got out of a relationship...she just wants attention to boost her self esteem. In the words of Tariq Nasheed, "Attention for a woman is what an Orgasm is for a man".

Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Thu Jan 13, 2011 5:18 pm ]
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You got laid dude. What the shit do you care what her motivation was? Only if she consistently hits on other guys in front of you would this ever become an issue. Forget about it.

Author:  Arkainis [ Thu Jan 13, 2011 5:25 pm ]
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You got laid dude. What the shit do you care what her motivation was? Only if she consistently hits on other guys in front of you would this ever become an issue. Forget about it.
I understand Blondguy. Honestly I got laid and Cockblock didn't. But the point is, I don't like the idea that I wasn't in control. I was under the impression that I'm in control, that we set the tone. I didn't like the idea that she made me jealous, and I was the patsy. Meaning she lowered my value. Yes i know the idea is to have sex but I wanted to have the sexual power, NOT HER.

Author:  sliqx [ Thu Jan 13, 2011 5:59 pm ]
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I agree with blond guy, dude you got laid. Wasnt that your plan when gaming her initialy? Forget about what happened that night and get back in control and get laid some more. Be careful not to fall for this HB though she seems to have issues.lol btw learn to rein in your emotions. Just my 2cents coz I'm very much an AFC.

Author:  IOWA [ Thu Jan 13, 2011 6:40 pm ]
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From wat your saying it seems like you left early and 330 is an hour and a half after most bars close in TX maybe she did fuck the other guy and wasnt to impressed with him maybe you did get played? either way you completed your mission and you should count that as a victory

Author:  Sticksie [ Thu Jan 13, 2011 7:06 pm ]
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Why the fuck would that lower your value??? seriousely get out of the whole mystery value concept. Your a man, you have standards. She crossed the line, you called her on it, she appoligised good work.

Mind you if she wouldn't come eye to eye I would expect you wouldn't fold on that either???

Good work,

Your new??? why the fuck are you here???

Author:  Sticksie [ Thu Jan 13, 2011 7:10 pm ]
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Just a thought. You say that you dont like that you weren't in controll of yourslef. i think maybe your path is more innergame man.

Welcome to my world.

http://www.attractioninstitute.org/

look me up when you get there.

-Sticksie

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