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Author:  Mau [ Fri Dec 17, 2010 7:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Inadequacy

Hey :)

My biggest sticking point is that when I walk into a Club or a Bar, I always get this intense feeling of inadequacy and real helplessness, I end up looking around the room and seeing all these guys older and more attractive than myself and start to think why any woman would be attracted to me.

Any help would be appreciated, Yours sincerely

Mau

Author:  Peter Pan [ Fri Dec 17, 2010 8:43 pm ]
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If you're not approaching .. you can't know which one is attracted to you and which is not .

Anyway I think you're suffering from anxiety and low self-esteem.
I saw this in one of "60years of challenge" ebooks but i forgot which one but it helped me a lot in my game and my life in general.

here's the theory: Every task you think you can't do it .. go and do it
By doing it you'll feel good and you'll gain more confidence.
Every task you do will be like a small step on the confidence ladder .

Im using this theory and its working for me ... Hope i helped you :)

Author:  Mau [ Sat Dec 18, 2010 4:52 pm ]
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Hey,

Yeah, thanks for the advice man, I'll definitely give that theory a try, I'll post again sometime soon to let you know how it went. :)

Mau

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