Thanks man for all of this. I already have begun my transformation
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| Author: | Warkid10 [ Thu Dec 16, 2010 7:22 am ] |
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I relized that i am to much of a nice guy. ive been trying to break this and become a bad boy but i cant becuz i dont know wat being a bad boy looks like. i need help...does anyone got anyway to turn my nice guy personality into a bad one? |
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| Author: | Mr_Amazing [ Thu Dec 16, 2010 1:59 pm ] |
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I think the first step is to learn how to say no to people. The problem with the nice guy is that he is only doing nice things for people so that they will like him. You have to be willing to refuse request from women, friends and family that you really don`t want to do. You don`t have to be a bad boy, just a little more selfish. |
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| Author: | Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Thu Dec 16, 2010 3:06 pm ] |
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Being a good, honest, caring person is all fine. The "nice guy" usually has the following problems 1. He agrees with everything she says, to try and maintain rapport, and to get her to like him. Don't do this. If you disagree, say so. Don't be afraid to make fun of her, tease her, flirt, etc. Be willing to risk breaking rapport once in a while. That doesn't mean calling her a bitch with a frown. But saying something like "omg that's so retarded" with a big smile whilst playfully pushing her a little, is simple, easy flirting that always works. 2. He's willing to change his actions and plans to suit her. You're unlikely to get a date at all if you say "I was wondering, if you're not busy, maybe we could do something, sometime." It's so non-committal and shows a lack of dominance and the ability to lead. Women like to be lead. Tell her where to meet and at what time, and what to wear if you like. If she keeps you hanging or flakes, just freeze her out a while and invite her to something really low-pressure and non-committal, like an evening out with other friends. 3. He does "good boyfriend" things too early. When you're in a relationship for a while, then flowers, presents, nice dinners, etc. are totally cool, if you want to give her something nice because she's been good to you and things are going well. But doing that stuff too soon looks like you're trying to buy her affection, and that you've emotionally invested way too much too early, and it will scare her away. 4. Not sexually escalating quick enough. This is the big one. Most guys are so scared to lose whatever rapport they have with her, that they don't make any kind of move for too long, at which point she assumes you're only looking for friends, or you're not attracted to her, or you're gay, or you're just a fucking pussy. The fact is, you lose FAR MORE by not escalating quick enough, than by doing so too quickly. If you go too fast, she'll probably just say or do something that essentially means "not yet / not right now / slow down" remember, a "no" with a giggle and a smile means "not yet." Even if she's not interested, she'll respect you more for trying and she'll be flattered that you tried at all. You can totally still be friends. Plus, you haven't wasted your time any longer with a girl who you didn't have a chance with. Now that you know, you can move onto another target. => In conclusion - be the guy she wants to fuck FIRST, and only then show her the good boyfriend material stuff AFTER you've had sex. You don't have to act like an asshole, lie, cheat or pretend you have 27 stripper ex-girlfriends. You just have to make your sexual intentions clear as early as possible, and act confidently and congruently with them. |
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| Author: | smooth99 [ Thu Dec 16, 2010 3:24 pm ] |
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another awesome post by blondguy |
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| Author: | LumberjackOnCrack [ Fri Dec 17, 2010 2:15 am ] |
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Agreed 100% with blondguy. I had the same problem, keyword *HAD* |
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| Author: | Warkid10 [ Fri Dec 17, 2010 3:50 am ] |
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Thanks man for all of this. I already have begun my transformation
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| Author: | BrianTampa [ Fri Dec 17, 2010 5:54 am ] |
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lots of true bad boys in old movies before feminism took over. check out James Dean in "rebel without a cause". women still think that movie is hot. Great scenes in "Gone with the Wind". The woman has a nice guy boyfriend who she doesn't want to marry, in comes Rhett Butler, total bad boy to the point of being abusive, she falls in love with him. His famous line is "frankly scarlett, I don't give a damn". Most of the Sean Connery James Bond movies have a lot of bad boy stuff, with him stealing the villains girlfriend. |
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