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Author:  boink [ Sun Dec 12, 2010 6:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Always feel like I need a perfect line for closing

Whenever I'm with a girl and its going well and I know I can go in for the k-close I always feel like I need some smooth line to initiate it. (I've done games, almost kisses, "I'm trying so hard not to kiss you", etc.) This also occurs with girls I have already k-closed (and f-closed).

Anyone have advice for becoming more natural at closing?

I hate having to come up with a line, and make sure that I haven't used it before, just for the sake of being smooth.

Author:  jurupa [ Mon Dec 13, 2010 10:32 pm ]
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Don't think, do. So what if its some crappy line. Said with confidence and delivered correctly you can get away with it.

Author:  Var1able [ Tue Dec 14, 2010 5:34 am ]
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read shitty romance novels :P

Author:  boink [ Tue Dec 14, 2010 4:34 pm ]
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Thanks.

No one else feels that they always have to come up with creative lines to close? Even girls you've closed before?

Author:  Var1able [ Tue Dec 14, 2010 9:40 pm ]
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lol i use "see you in your dreams" or "dream about me". f*cking chiche but it does the trick. put a CF grin to that and you got a perfect closer. That way you can ask her next time you see her if she dreamt about you and you already have something to talk about, dreams make a great topic of interest, plus you can always bump it up from "dream" to "wet dream". I've found its a way to have your cake and eat it too: she'll see you as both romantic AND get all soaking wet haha. The power of suggestion... tell her to have a wet dream and she will have a wet daydream.

Author:  boink [ Thu Dec 16, 2010 4:50 am ]
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I think you're not clear on what closing means. I did not mean what to say goodbye to her with. I was asking what people say before they kiss-close, or f-close, so that its still smooth? And if other people feel that they always need to be smooth when closing?

Author:  Var1able [ Thu Dec 16, 2010 1:57 pm ]
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apologies lol i've been practicing the art for a while but its just now that i've begun to learn the terminology. from the way you said it, it sounded nothing like a kiss-close. simply because no one says a line when they kiss a girl, its just plain ridiculous. of course, if you really wanted to you could always use the cliche ones like "shut up and kiss me", most women who have ever watched sappy chick flicks have dreamed of that moment haha. I like to almost trail off like pausing between words as i move closer, then kiss her mid sentence, that does the trick. haha you'll find the best lines arent about what is said but how its said.

also,
it sounds like you're trying to work your way into a kiss gradually. this is pretty impossible as it stands, and relatively useless if you could actually pull it off. when you kiss a girl, youre throwing her into a world of deeper attraction, and the abruptness of it is essential for deepening attraction. Just imagine if she had like 30 minutes to prepare herself for kissing you, how awkward that would be when you actually did. if you need something so you don't surprise her, go slower at the beginning, but don't hesitate. you need to know when to drop the talk and get your kino on, my friend. best of luck.

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