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Author:  Takeher [ Thu Nov 25, 2010 7:55 pm ]
Post subject:  She Has a boyfriend
I've known this girl for about 7 years. For as long as i can remember she's been having this Boyfriend. She started with him and then she met me. She wanted to dump him for me, but I (having no game at all at the time) faded away. I didnt talk to her for long while after that and when we began talking again she told me she had a son with the guy. Now we text each other every other day if not everyday and call each other when we can. (when her boyfriend is not around)

She lives with her boyfriend and is at the stage in the relationship where she knows shes just with him because shes used to him and hes the father of her child but she fights with him everyday and finds him very boring.

She flirts with me sometimes but has a limit she doesnt cross in respect to her boy. which i respect, BUT i want to escalate. Honestly i do kind of like her but she basically has a family soo i pretty much want to sleep with her and remain as friends. I know i know, I should leave it alone because she has a boyfriend. BUT for a minute here lets forget about that one little rule. After all to become good with the force one must learn to master all sides of it . the good AND the dark side :wink:

i cant believe i used star wars but its wat just came up lol.
Author:  Savlon [ Thu Nov 25, 2010 10:19 pm ]
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bahahahahaha who cares if she has a boyfriend! what i'd be worried about is the SOCK lol (Some Other Cunts Kid) hahahaha i try to stay away from women with kids because they tend to look for a "daddy"...
however i think you're trying to make something happen that seriously wont work out in the long run... you want to have sex with a woman with a kid and a boyfriend and you still want to stay friends with her after it??? from experience this wont work because she'll have feelings for you but she wont be able to act on them feelings after the sex because she has a family and she'd have to change her whole life around just for YOU...
or you could rip out some boyfriend destroyers although it sounds like you dont need them because she's already into you...

i'd probably try to get her to come out with you for a few drinks and then see where it goes from there... but that will be a little hard because she has a boyfriend and a kid lol...
Author:  Legit_ [ Thu Nov 25, 2010 11:09 pm ]
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Dude.

I would run so fast in the opposite direction.

Nothing good can come from closing a girl with a boyfriend, but more importantly a KID.

Her life is hard enough already without your home wrecking.

Unless of course you want to be a father. In that case, go ahead.
Author:  RVAIS [ Fri Nov 26, 2010 4:47 am ]
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your too hung up on her

u need to do this

http://www.break.com/index/she-has-a-boyfriend.html
Author:  JasonDursing [ Fri Nov 26, 2010 3:50 pm ]
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Mate don't be a f***ing idiot.
Yes, PUA is to be used to get you laid, but not like this.
There is a limit.

1. She has been with this guy for 7 years
2. She has a effing kid with him
3. She's playing you, and your to stupid to realise.


When I started reading your post I picked up that you're a massive AFC when you said
Quote:
She wanted to dump him for me
...haha, this made me think of the How I met your Mother episode when the chick was just using Ted, she kept saying she would break up with her boyfriend, just to keep him around, with her knowing she clearly will not do ANYTHING with him.

This is one of the most classic examples...
Women gets pregnant, she doesn't like the father, but stays with him, but tells another guy she is getting abused and they fight and he drinks and takes recreational drugs...
The guy stays around hoping to one day get with the girl, until he realises that nothings going to change, even when that child is 18, and you might as well try fuck her instead (assuming its a girl).

Don't bother, you seem like a AFC, so I will put it easier;
read some PUA books, read comments on the forum, find friends who will commit with you, sarge, get results, never talk to this girl again.

Not only that, it really sickens me when you say you just want a root, then continue to be friends...mate she has a child and a boyfriend for 7 years...people with your mentality are the people who should NOT become PUA's.
Author:  RVAIS [ Fri Nov 26, 2010 9:21 pm ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
Mate don't be a f***ing idiot.
Yes, PUA is to be used to get you laid, but not like this.
There is a limit.

1. She has been with this guy for 7 years
2. She has a effing kid with him
3. She's playing you, and your to stupid to realise.


When I started reading your post I picked up that you're a massive AFC when you said
Quote:
She wanted to dump him for me
...haha, this made me think of the How I met your Mother episode when the chick was just using Ted, she kept saying she would break up with her boyfriend, just to keep him around, with her knowing she clearly will not do ANYTHING with him.






This is one of the most classic examples...
Women gets pregnant, she doesn't like the father, but stays with him, but tells another guy she is getting abused and they fight and he drinks and takes recreational drugs...
The guy stays around hoping to one day get with the girl, until he realises that nothings going to change, even when that child is 18, and you might as well try fuck her instead (assuming its a girl).

Don't bother, you seem like a AFC, so I will put it easier;
read some PUA books, read comments on the forum, find friends who will commit with you, sarge, get results, never talk to this girl again.

Not only that, it really sickens me when you say you just want a root, then continue to be friends...mate she has a child and a boyfriend for 7 years...people with your mentality are the people who should NOT become PUA's.



The OP is a human being "" hes flawded we all are even the girl. Every guy has had a situation similar to this.

But yeah time to move on.
Author:  Vietman100 [ Wed Dec 01, 2010 8:57 pm ]
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Shes using you dude. Basically because her boyfriend is boring, she's going to get that little bit of excitement from you and once she gets it, what do you think she's going to do to you?

She will kick you to the curb my friend. And seeing that you're posting on the forum about it, it probably means you have feelings for her. Save yourself the heartbreak and frustration and move on. If she has a boring boyfriend, thats her problem. She needs to be an adult and fix that with him. Don't be her temporary solution because I am almost certain you will end up getting the shitty end of the stick.
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