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Author:  Exploder [ Sat Nov 20, 2010 3:54 am ]
Post subject:  Great at opening then I fail miserably

I am so frustrated right now. I can get laid but it is more about luck and never the girls I really want.

I can open 8 out of 10 sets everything from 1 girl to 6 girls (even with guys in there). They can be 8,9 and 10s

I get their attention, they wil give me IOI's (smiling, lean forward, turn to talk with me).

But then I pretty quickly run out of stuff to say/unsure how to proceed. Next they lose interest and blow me out.

My question is this:

What do you guys do just after opener to build connection and comfort? I'm thinking that I should say/do/be something that makes them think: "I like this guy, he should stay".

Please give concrete examples instead of saying stuff like "Do some DHV, qualify her and the take her home". I have read alot of theories but want to know how you guys actually does it.

Author:  Naughty_pencil [ Sat Nov 20, 2010 10:14 am ]
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wow dude ur the opposite to me when i started out.

see once i opened a set, i neva fell short of things to say. the only problem was finding sets to approach and getting over Approach anxiety coz i neva followed the 3 second rule.

anyways ive discovered that the secret to having a flowing, happy fun conversation and at the same time flirt and be sexy, is to make her feel like she needs to put in the effort. it sounds hard but once u do it, ull see how insane it is. if u ask to much questions then she'll expect to only respond to ur questions and it'll come to silence soon enough. rememba to look into her eyes when things get silent, dont show nervousness, the girl will neva EVER blow u off or walk away if u do this.

the only time she'll eva walk away because of awkward silence is once u stop looking at her and look around the room, look at ur feet, the bar etc. then she'll be like "anyways nice to meet you" and walk off. talk to her, and whilst ur talking to her, u can look at her half the time, and also move ur eyes around the room sometimes because once things get silent, u can then focus into her eyes, sending the message "i like you, im fine to sit here in silence". and the girl will almost always come out with saying something.

the conversation will neva end untill u choose.

:)

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