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| Author: | ImNaShitFool [ Sat Oct 09, 2010 9:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | escalation & when to go sexual? |
I'm not sure what causes my problem, but I can describe it & hopefully one of you will know how to help fix it. ok, all last week i made tremendous improvements in my game & I learned that I already HAD game (Ie. I already used negs, cocky funny & comfort building) I just wasn't using it right cuz I had a lil bit of approval seeking & neediness holding me back... So when I learned this.. My energy was on high.. Every girl I spoke too I had a real strong frame, real cocky funny, lots of negs, cat string, baiting.. I was just on fire from a social point of view.. I was being the man.. But It wasent resulting in sex.. So I made the effort to try and escalate so I start getting a lil more sexual with this one chick who was sending plenty iois & she came to me to bitch about her boyfriend so I used that for comfort building.. then I kinda stray off into the topic of sex, and do a lil role reversal game... But I push the sex agenda just a little too hard.. And I deff do not get shot down.. But I do encounter resistance.. Anyways... I try again on a different girl.. I built attraction off a real good cocky/funny game, lots of negs.. and got the number.. we start texting.. So after like a week of just casual texting.. I start comfort building, I start screening & trying to build trust... & it goes over pretty well.. Then I go back to the playful game.. & we go into this little.. "were gonna fight" playful frame.. & i try to include sexual innuendo.. to build the tension... & it seemed to be working but I think i may have missed my cue to go overtly sexual cuz I was in the mindstate that SHE needs to be chasing me.. So that idea kinda confused me... & I was being reluctant, not out of fear, but out of trying to adhere to a good technical game... so this is where I need work.. so how do u know when to show direct interest & go overtly sexual? Its a lil confusing since most of the game requires making urself the prize & holding ur interest back.. |
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| Author: | Vietman100 [ Tue Oct 12, 2010 9:38 pm ] |
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Have you tried light physical contact with any of these girls to raise their sexual interest? It sounds like you're good with your verbal game and can get them into a good comfort level but if you don't break the physical barrier you might never get a sexual vibe from them. I've done this plenty of times and it seems to work. You don't have to go overboard with the touching but a light brush against her hand or elbow will tell her that you're comfortable and are willing to take it to the next level. If she reciprocates the touching later on in the night, escalate with more invasive contact (if thats the right word haha) and it's on! |
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