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Sticking point: When she calls me on my intentions
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Author:  Mungo [ Sat Sep 11, 2010 3:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Sticking point: When she calls me on my intentions

I often find myself without a good response when a girl calls me on hitting on her. Quite commonly, she will ask "is that a pick up line?", and I feel like I've been exposed. I lose my flow and can't come up with anything to say.

I only just started thinking about it, and I think just going silent and looking into her eyes with a daring smile, then maybe saying something along the lines of "why, do you want it to be?" may be good.

Or maybe touching her shoulder the way you do when you say goodbye to a friend, only a bit more sexually and with a light stroke, while positioning yourself in a way that reveals your intention to leave, smile and say "don't get your hopes up", and leave for a false takeaway.

Some of the responses I've made, for lack of something better, are (of course with horrible results every time): "It may be, I gotta try that some time", "I don't know, do you think it is" and the likes. Don't flame me for it, they were just whatever came to my mind to fill the void after they put me out of balance by calling me on my intentions.

However, I think that the best way is the natural way, and I try not to hide my intentions. I try to be very sexual right off the bat, so her calling me on it should not mean to me that she has exposed anything that I haven't already revealed. I think I will have to think about that and just be ready for her to pop the question, and when it happens, I'll just treat it like she's just merely stating the obvious. Maybe a nice response to that effect would be "Do people have arms?". Or "No, I don't do pick-up lines, but I do pick up girls on occasion" - then just let her think about whether that was meant to connote that I'm trying to pick her up or not.

Your thoughts please.

Author:  poeticlyskuac [ Sun Sep 12, 2010 10:38 am ]
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Of course I am. You really need to stop flirting than and leading me on.

I observe her body language and say something about it, if they like you than you can outright say well based on this and that and this you like me, so I believe you are hitting on me.

Where did you think this is leading?

How do you know you are not hitting on me?(sometimes I deflect)

Well this is awkward should I keep hitting on you or should I walk away now?(I usually turn my body to start walking away, sometimes pulled back)

Aww the Second phase of courtship, you now recognize I am hitting on you.

Well it was either this or air humping towards you, which do you prefer?


Just what ever random statement eases the moment. I am generally honest. Pretty direct, I pretty much agree with what ever people say about me. Their opinion of me is just fine. So if you say I am crazy I agree, if you say I am weird I agree, whatever you say I agree. People tend to like people who make the other person always right. "You're right", one of the most powerful statements, because it empowers them. Those are just some of the statement I came up with in a few minutes.

Author:  poeticlyskuac [ Sun Sep 12, 2010 10:38 am ]
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Of course I am. You really need to stop flirting than and leading me on.

I observe her body language and say something about it, if they like you than you can outright say well based on this and that and this you like me, so I believe you are hitting on me.

Where did you think this is leading?

How do you know you are not hitting on me?(sometimes I deflect)

Well this is awkward should I keep hitting on you or should I walk away now?(I usually turn my body to start walking away, sometimes pulled back)

Aww the Second phase of courtship, you now recognize I am hitting on you.

Well it was either this or air humping towards you, which do you prefer?


Just what ever random statement eases the moment. I am generally honest. Pretty direct, I pretty much agree with what ever people say about me. Their opinion of me is just fine. So if you say I am crazy I agree, if you say I am weird I agree, whatever you say I agree. People tend to like people who make the other person always right. "You're right", one of the most powerful statements, because it empowers them. Those are just some of the statement I came up with in a few minutes.

Author:  Mungo [ Sun Sep 12, 2010 11:42 am ]
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Good ones. They go well with the idea that you should be very direct with your intentions.

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