Hi, I'm a rAFC and it's my first post here.
So I've been gaming an older girl (but only by 1 year) for a few weeks now.
We're from the same ethnic background and in our culture, the younger guy must call the older girl by a word which literally means 'older sister' (which I obviously do NOT want to see her as and vice versa as 'younger brother').
So recently, I've been calling her by her name instead of that word but I still feel restrained under our culture. In many cases, girls would prefer older guys over younger guys (since they tend to be more alpha I guess). I've teased her a lot, I've been cocky & funny, escalated a little bit of kino and all, built some rapport, trying to be alpha.
Essentially, I think I'm having problems trying to create attraction. I don't want to be LJBF'd just because of a 1 year age difference (I know you guys will likely say she's only older by a year but in our culture, age means A LOT). Have you guys ever been in this kind of situation? How did you guys overcome it?
P.S. We actually have quite a bit in common so I'm seeking a LTR with her instead of just a bang.