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Author:  memento_mori [ Tue Aug 31, 2010 7:04 am ]
Post subject:  Can easily get the commitment to the date, but not the date!

I seem to be rally sticking bad. I have good open, good rapport, I get the date, but EVERY SINGLE TIME I get stood up.

Night of club:

Her: You gonna be at the club?
Me: Mayyyybe, do you want me there?
Her: Yes.
Me: Come buy me a drink. Then I'll buy you one.
Her: I don't have money to buy you a drink
Me: Just do like I do, have someone [an afc] buy you one. Bring it to me, then I'll buy you one.
Her: I'll see you there

At Club:
Her: You here?
Me: Let's play hide n seek, where am I?
[She immediately finds me near the dance floor, ignores my hot date and comes up and gives me a really tight hug, then says]
Her: I'm in my own place now. Just me. No boyfriend. I owe you dinner. I haven't forgotten.
Me: Me neither. Now there's interest to be paid...
Her [just looks into my eyes]
Me: I'll text you.

Next night's text messages:
me: What nights are good for you, dinner wise?
her: not school nights.
me: soooo, no sunday-thursday?
her: Saturday and sunday. School nights I have lots of stuff going on. [BULLSHIT DETECTED, but not reacted to]
me: Cool. Saturday then
her: Can't this sat. relatives coming over [BS]
me: Sunday then.
her: I don't have any money
me: doesn't matter. I'm rich. I'll buy the steaks [we had already decided on not chicken and not fish] and you cook them. it's symbiotic. I provide, you complete.
[no answer for a couple of hours. here's where i stumble each and every time. it seems to be they can't cough enough money up for dinner? Bullshit. Something's up and I don't know it. what am I doing wrong here?]
her: Sorry. Having drama with baby daddy [not knowing what sorry meant, did it mean sorry i haven't contacted you or does it mean sorry dinner's off?]
me: I don't quite understand what you are saying...
[at this point she never answers me. it's over, done.]

Like I said, getting the date is WAY easy for me. I have no trouble at all. It's actually getting them to GO. I have lost DOZENS this way.

HELP

Author:  yungswag757 [ Mon Feb 14, 2011 9:48 am ]
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I've been having the same problem. I do everything that i'm suppose to do, i get the # close, we talk on text briefly but they never come thru 4 the meeting. 4 me, there's only a small percentage of solid #'s i get from the clubs (where i thought i was strong at). But i never get any flakes during day game. Its just my personal experience.

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