Ok so there's this HB7.5 that goes to my school and I've hooked up with her like 2 times, both of which she was drunk. She recently got out of a bad relationship and now has really big emotional problems and doesn't know what she wants now. I know that she has feelings for me, and I know that if I had the opportunity to run some game I could have her, but she puts up a wall. I spontaneously text her every now and then seeing if she wants to meet up/party on a given night and she always has something planned. Although she sits behind me in one of my classes, it can be difficult talking to her (it's Physics and no one talks). I say hi when I see her and we talk about our weekends and smalltalk like that but nothing really interesting... I only really get like a 2 minute window of time to talk to her during class. If I want to plan something with her, I get the feeling she'll just say 'Maybe' and put me on low priority (She's pretty much done this before). My perception is that she likes me but does not want to like me because she does not want to feel vulnerable, as she did with her ex, nor does she want to feel shitty if I reject her (her ex cheated on her and she was 'in love' with him).
So to sum it up:
She likes me
She doesn't want to like me
She puts up a wall
I want to bone her
If I could get an hour or two where I could run some game, I know I'd make mad progress
At the same time, I don't want to look like I really have feelings for her and want a relationship because I know for a fact that will scare her away.
What do I do?
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