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WTF?! Turning into AN AFC again?! Losing my game? NO!
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Author:  seb1989 [ Sun Jul 26, 2009 7:25 pm ]
Post subject:  WTF?! Turning into AN AFC again?! Losing my game? NO!
What the f*** is happening to me now! :cry:

I just began to be very good at woman, but now the last time I feel I am going to turn into an AFC again. I feel frustrated and angry!! How does this come.......

I don;t know if you guys have experienced this before. I started gaming a couple of months ago and I really made some progress. I even k-closed two girls on one eve and they started fighting over me! Well, if that isn;t a turn on for me ,ggegehee. But since a couple of days maybe even a week, i feel more and more frustrated. I keep reading these other journals and I start to become jealous on these field reports and lay reports. First, I thought I could see it to learn by my self, but now when I read them, I become more and more frustrated.. Why not me. Maybe this is a part of the game. What do I do about it?!! Man, I just can't take it at this moment... I am full of routines etc. but my inner game doesn't seem right. I really want to become very good at this. But I see all these guy lay many girls, I mean I have gotten better with woman and i am able to generate attraction,but damnn... I see lay reports from guys here with hb8 and hb9, but When AM i able to do this?! Damn, it is so frustrating..

Maybe, this comes off as a wussy reaction, I can totally understand (when i am in a different/happier state) but last days I feel more and more frustrated again, like I am going to lose all the stuff I learned... I really hope some of you guys have experienced this to and maybe you could help me out.. I really need it.

Thanxx :D :cry:
Author:  870 [ Sun Jul 26, 2009 9:12 pm ]
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The first thing you need to do is quit comparing yourself to other people, especially people you don't even know bragging on the internet about events that may or may not have even taken place.

This is self-improvement, not a damn competition. The only person you need to be better than today is the person you were yesterday.

Your boy,
870
Author:  BC_3s5 [ Mon Jul 27, 2009 4:36 am ]
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He could not have said it better. Always be better than you were the day before. I've began seeing exponentially progressive results with this mindset. Continue doing what works for you and just rework what you're struggling with. Just keep the positive mind set and only OBSERVE other people's successes OR mistakes, then apply the knowledge!
Author:  Mr. Amador [ Mon Jul 27, 2009 4:55 am ]
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Every skill is a breakthrough followed by a plateau, followed by a breakthrough, followed by another plateau.

You just have to keep going. And work hard to get to your next breakthrough.
Author:  Sebastian V [ Mon Jul 27, 2009 11:54 am ]
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870: "the only person you need to be better than today is the person you were yesterday".... fu cking awesome quote! lol... I have a habit of doing something successful and then after just laying back saying to myself, i did really good last night, tonight i will just relax n not put as much effort in n then i fall back into a slump. but that new quote is going in my personal memory vault!

yeh i think everyone has a plateu... , maybe try using less canned routines n try being more situational!.. its much more rewarding and gives u great confidence. That might be a reason u feel so low. Also try pushing urself further out of the comfort zone.. eg dont settle for a k-close, really push (not the target, urself lol) to get a full-close even if you dont feel comfortable yet or even if u dont think u've built enough attraction, just do it and u will learn from ur failures, and u might even get some closes that u didnt realise were on!
Author:  seb1989 [ Mon Jul 27, 2009 5:07 pm ]
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Yeah thank you guys,

Yeah I am doing this for myself, it is not a competition actually, but it is sometimes very frustrating. I want to become good at this so badly, and some moments it just doesnt come off and I am trying and trying.. And there has been some succes in terms of kiss closing and number closing but then I am reading these other field reports of lay reports and that makes me frustrating.

But in my standards I have made some massive improvements.. I didnt have the gut before to approach a girl. Now i approach 6 sets at least at a night. So this is a major succes point. But You know, My goal is to become as good as AFC adam or Gambler..... I want this so badly.. Maybe when I am comparing myself to them it is logical I get frustrated. But for now, I have to focus myself on little improvements... I thinkk.

Cheers,

The Jas 8)
Author:  tom3208 [ Wed Jul 29, 2009 6:19 pm ]
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Yeah well i can kinda relate to the problem... atleast the subject!

I had much progress during spring but then i concentrated more on studies so I had like 2 month break on pu. And the result was AA again which really made me frustrated. And up until now I think my problem is just that I dont take this seriously enough. Its come more as a hobby, which kinda is bad thing since I dont do daygame anymore and rarely go out. Luckily imma change that again today. Brb going out>>
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