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| Author: | platinum afc [ Wed Feb 18, 2009 4:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | I smile alot (player vibe) seems insincere |
My past approaches before this world of pick-up-artistry, and currently during this world of pick-up-artistry I find that I'm not taking seriously. I know I come off real intimidating to females, because I smile, and naturally make alot of faces here, and there. So most of the time I've been questioned about being a player, and that sometimes what I say sounds too scripted. Before this world of pua, and even knowing about pua even existed, me and a group of buddies would boost everyone's ego's, by making up over-the-top ego-boosters. Like say a random girl would wear a regular T-Shirt, one guy would start talking about how that shirt is very unique, and all of a sudden we all started jumping in saying wow damn that shirt is out of this world you definitely got a taste for style. I would like for you to wear that exact shirt on our wedding day, fuck a wedding dress your shirt is hott. Shit like that is very common for my social group, nobody ever seemed serious and sincere. We would do this in a serious tone, and laugh our asses off only when the person has left. It has come to the point that It has literally grown on me. Guys would always think of something new to say during highschool, and now even college/uni years to ego boost. I mean it was contagious, we would ego boost everyone, teachers, strangers, anyone but only as a group. None of these guys know about this pua world. What i'm trying to say is that, I have developed a smile, that I find always gets questioned . Its like i'm trying to hold back from laughing, but smiling really hard to stop it from escaping. So now since I've been using the openers, and I noticed that I'm really intimidating with my approach, even though i'm nervous not ego-boostin without a peer group. I only got one friend who knows about me trying to learn this PUA material, and he even ego-boosted my ass about it but I know he isn't interested in it at all, and exploring gaming outside of our social circle. I don't know how to stop myself from laughing to be honest, I thinks its a nervous remedy of mine. I always look like I'm either high and or having a blast with some secret agenda, when I'm honestly just smiling as a habit. |
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| Author: | Charlie0 [ Wed Feb 18, 2009 5:39 pm ] |
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Don't you dare change one fucking thing bro. If you're being questioned, tell them the truth. You find the world to be a really funny place. Have something to follow up with (for example...), but don't change who you are. Not giving a damn what other people think is very alpha, and being able to laugh at even the not-so-great stuff is an awesome trait. The only thing I'd spiff up would be when you mess with people. Like in your example when you were playing with a girl for wearing a plain shirt, instead of appearing serious, be cocky/funny about it. Obviously be joking so they don't think you're making fun or trying to insult them. |
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| Author: | nightrider767 [ Wed Feb 18, 2009 9:09 pm ] |
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I think the women have been clear about what's putting them off. Your PU lines probably do sound too scripted. It's an important skill to get a handle on, not only for women. Like a job interview, same concept. Tell them the good shit without sounding scripted. It's gotta sound natural. I haven't seen you in action, so I don't know exactly what's going on. But I would suggest you go off script too. Play some unique lines she knows are only for her. Ad lib in the moment. Think about the guy knocking on your door and you answer. You know he wants to sell you something. WHo are you gonna buy from? The pushy guy who is reading that same script he's layed on a miliion people? Or the ntatural who makes a connection with you, maybe gets you to laugh, and shows you something you want to buy. Think of things from her point of view.... Her perspective. Keep that smile going brother!!! Man,, that's gold. If you get in trouble, it's not because of your smile,,, it's because of your eyes. That's where the too strong "read" is coming from. PS Dude,,, the ego boost game. Fucking awesome! I love that game. I'm gonna crank on that with some buds. Too much! Good story for the ladies by the way. They love funny inventive stuff like that. Keep Truckin Brutha |
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