Okay, so here's the deal. I think I have a pretty solid game. I can successfully go out and number close and recently I've been full closing. I know that my "solid game" does have flaws though; there is always room for improvement. I just need a little help finding what I did wrong. Here's the story:
Last night I went out with some bros, me being the only guy who uses "pick up". I met this girl that we will call Megan. Her and I hit it off and everything was great. I got invited back to her dorm and I full closed her. She was told me how she thaught I was "different" than other guys and she enjoyed hanging out.
Tonight, I was going out to another club with my wing and some other friends and I ran into her before hand. She said she wasn't going out and asked if I was. I told her some friends and I were going to a club and she should tag along if she didn't want to stay in tonight. She agreed to go out with us after a short conversation.
Before we went to the club, I told my wing I had her the night before and she was coming out with us. He said it was cool and he would be fine with me not so much gaming but hanging out with Megan. Some time at the club passed and everything was going smoothly. There was a lot of kino and flirting between me and this girl. We danced a little, she was buying me drinks and everyone was having a great time. My wing was gaming her too and also going to other sets. I also decided to socialize and open other sets.
After about 4 hours at this club, most of the group decided they wanted to leave and Megan agreed to go with me. She put on her coat and right as we were leaving my wing grabbed her hand and said "I'm staying here for a few more drinks, you should join me." She let go of my hand and agreed to have a few more with him. The problem was, I was leaving with a group of people and felt obligated to walk a few of the girls in the group home [they are close friends and asked me to make sure they got home safely]. A few minutes went by while others in the group gathered their belongings. When I went to say bye to my wing, he was making out with Megan despite knowing I was going for round two. Fine. I stuck with my promise and walked the girls home in my group.
About five minutes later I got a phone call from my friend X. He said Megan invited my wing back to her place and he was going. I didn't let it bother me too much until I really thought about it right now. My wing KNEW I was going for round two and he AGREED it was fine and he would sarge around. So now I'm sitting here kind of realizing that my wing screwed me over. The reason I am sitting here writing this is because my wing went home with the girl I got last night. No, I'm not attached to her, it's just I feel my wing screwed me over. Right now I should be with Megan doing my thing, but instead he is.
I guess this is more of a venting rant than anything, but I just wanted to know what you guys think about a wingman screwing you over. Has it happened to anyone else even though it was CLEAR the girl was yours? I am wondering if maybe me opening other sets and flirting around turned her off, my wingman just doesn't care and wanted her anyways, maybe I was boring her , or maybe she is just a s*** and it has nothing to do with me or my wing.
How should I approach my wing about it? I have more than one wing here at college [actually 4 guys who study PUA] so maybe I should not sarge with him. I talked to my other wing about it a little bit ago and he thinks I should sit him down and express in a nice way that what happened wasn't cool. As for her, she was just being a typical girl I suppose and I should let it go. I don't want to hear "sarge more girls and it's fine" because I have plans with a different wing tomorrow night.
If this happened to you guys, what would you say to your wing? Would you mention anything to "Megan" tomorrow when you unavoidably see her? I've never been screwed over by a wing before and this guy was the last I expected. Any ideas would be appreciated. Sorry for the novel by the way.
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