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| Author: | Nick Stone [ Tue Aug 05, 2008 7:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | She gets too nervous around me? |
Ok so i have been talking to this girl for a few months now. I think I may have DHVed too much because she says we dont hang out cause she gets too nervous when shes around me, she says shes afraid she is going to mess up in front of me. (thats one of my problems is after I DHV i dont want to stop lol) I get constant IOIs when i am around her. So at first she was interested in me but now we have moved into the friends zone. Now how can I get out of the Friend zone? I guess I need to lower my value down to hers right how can i do this? Anyone know how to solve this problem? |
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| Author: | santos_br [ Tue Aug 05, 2008 8:46 pm ] |
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Basically when you get into LJBF Zone you are pretty much there to stay. DLVing is not the solution. You will only mess things even more. Try increasing sexual tension and becoming a challenge again. Remember the longer you stay on LJBFZ the harder it is go get out. |
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| Author: | Nick Stone [ Tue Aug 05, 2008 8:52 pm ] |
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Its possible to get out of the LJBFZ, Im just wondering how because the attraction is there, she just got out of a bad relationship and is a little worried about gettin into another. Could you be more specific on creating sexual tension and becoming more of a challenge. I have false disqualified myself already. The thing that gets me is that she always gets nervous around me and i need to lower value to get that nervousness out of the picture. |
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| Author: | Stetson [ Wed Aug 06, 2008 12:05 am ] |
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When a girl is out of any relationship, they are always looking for a new one. Theres nothing specific in becoming more of a challenge, you need to be the prize that she must win, not the other way around. Sexual tension can be built up by kino, words and body language IN PERSON. False disqualifying yourself in the LJBF-land without attraction would be a really bad move. Quote: Basically when you get into LJBF Zone you are pretty much there to stay.
Not if you know what and how to do things.
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| Author: | Nick Stone [ Wed Aug 06, 2008 11:36 pm ] |
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Ya i have read plenty of posts of guys leaving the friend zone. At first I played my status up and she was all over me, then i wanted her and she turned it around on me. |
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| Author: | Stetson [ Thu Aug 07, 2008 12:32 pm ] |
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Quote: Ya i have read plenty of posts of guys leaving the friend zone. At first I played my status up and she was all over me, then i wanted her and she turned it around on me.
Yep, you "wanted" her too much in the end.Remember the cat-string-theory  Try to create some jealousy in her by chatting and flirting with other girls, this should re-create the attraction. Remember, the game isn't over as long as you are living. |
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| Author: | Sheer Con [ Tue Aug 19, 2008 8:20 pm ] |
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I'm having a similar problem |
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| Author: | McBagel [ Wed Aug 20, 2008 2:39 am ] |
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nice |
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| Author: | McBagel [ Wed Aug 20, 2008 2:41 am ] |
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nice post |
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| Author: | McBagel [ Wed Aug 20, 2008 2:42 am ] |
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nice post |
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