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Author:  Nassander [ Mon Jul 24, 2017 3:37 pm ]
Post subject:  The fun-zone

I build a lot of energy around me and make heaps of "friends" at clubs and bars, but I'm finding that a bit like the friend-zone, it's landing me in the fun-zone. People want to be around me, both guys and girls, but the more excitement I give off the less sexy I appear to women.

Some theories:

- Using all my energy building up the crowd leaves me with nothing in the tank to talk to a girl I like
- The excitement scatters me, so I can give a girl that comes my way full attention
- I'm running at 11 too much, and need to do it intermittently

Ever experienced this? Thoughts?

Author:  JackZero [ Mon Jul 24, 2017 3:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The fun-zone

You'll never hear a woman say, "Disney World is so fun it just makes me want to get naked." Realize the fun is like an opener and it grabs a woman's attention. If you can't transition that fun into flirtation then you are nothing more than entertainment.

Author:  Nassander [ Mon Jul 24, 2017 4:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The fun-zone

Quote:
You'll never hear a woman say, "Disney World is so fun it just makes me want to get naked." Realize the fun is like an opener and it grabs a woman's attention. If you can't transition that fun into flirtation then you are nothing more than entertainment.
That makes a lot of sense and that's exactly how I felt. I'm compensating cause I used to suck at opening so I've been focused on that a lot and but am naturally better at connecting with one person as I'm quite introverted, so all I need to do is cap the excitement, add some spic here and there and go back to my roots.

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