All of my experience has been daytime until now, always absolutely sucked in clubs, so I'm trying to fix that. And last week, I finally managed to reach a capstone: I danced with a hot girl at the club (yay). Picked her hand, spun her, escalated, had her grinding and everything, went great. Honestly she did 90% of the job and I just had to not pussy up and get her hand but still, feels like a whole new world.
But now, there are some specific issues I didn't expect, so if any of you nightgame pros could give some hints it would be great:
Different energy: She was reeeeally energetic, whereas I'm more an Ignition Remix rythm guy, and I didn't want to go full dance monkey just to keep up with her. How do you do in those situations?
How to complete escalation? In bars/conversation it's easy, start touching her hand, her arm, hips, back, find a way to touch her face, hair, kiss, done. But while her hand/arms/hips/back were done in about ten seconds, I couldn't find any way to escalate further (mostly due to how energetic she was, she was basically headbanging). Any tips?
Do you go for the kiss on the dance floor? Or do you just dance, and later bounce her somewhere else and then go for the kiss? If so, when/how do you bounce?
How long is too long? After being stuck on escalation for about one song, I started feeling like I had to rush, or that things were dying. After how long do you start feeling "this is going nowhere I should bounce/change something" ?
How to handle shit tests? I tried pushing a bit more (because I felt like I was in a rush), and probably did too much as she ended up dancing elsewhere by herself. About 10s later she was dancing with my wing. Didn't really mind as I can recognize a shit test, and just ignored it, but didn't know what to do after. "Agree and amplify" obviously doesn't work here. Could have gone to dance with another girl, but there was no cute one around. What do you do in those situations? Do you dance with her again at some point (and when, how?), or do you never go back? Again, any tips?
I have been having the same struggle dancefloor game is new to me as well. Atleast you got to the point where you can open a hot girl while on the floor. Im still struggle with the approach and opening & it doesny help that most girls are in reject mode. The few girls i do dance and grind etc with it will be for a bit and they move on usually its in a group so they jjst kinda continue on with their group. Like im stuck on how to make a girl stay cause idk if im touchy cause i escalate sexually and the girl seems to like it usually but idk if its cause im doing it to soon or not isolating and doing it. Lol my dancefloor game needs some serious help lol