Well then how do you fix the problem of usually failing to make the women comfortable? I have literally been so awkward I had women really into me actually give me LMR.

What it boils down to is me not trusting women because they change their minds all the time. They make me nervous because if I can't overcome my awkwardness, then sarging can even become legally dangerous for me. I am becoming quite discouraged and wonder why I even try at all anymore.

That's on you. Your beliefs dictate your actions. Are you scared of being one on one with women ?

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[quote="Mr. Assertive"]That's on you. Your beliefs dictate your actions. Are you scared of being one on one with women ?[/quote]

I'm not afraid in the conventional sense (rejection). It is a fear stemming from distrust since women usually don't seem to know what they want in life.

For example, in the past I have pulled off being smooth with women and they we're into me and they gave me sex, but as soon as I grow tired of playing the suave bullshitter and let my hair down around them, they usually pull 180's on me and lose interest.

It is frustrating that some women have literally zero tolerance for socially awkward men, while others cut me some slack. The sad thing is every woman in my life has only showed interest and had sex with me when I acted like kind of an asshole, hence justifying my distrust when they claim they want nice guys lol.

How is your example imply women not knowing what they want? It seems like you do what most guys do when they are pretending with women. You have sex and then showing who you really are. It's like they're getting a different guy but somehow you are blaming them.

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What I mean is every time I be myself aka act like a polite, mannered, civil individual, women never show sexual interest. It is only when I act like the typical douchebag that they respond to me sexually, which is fucking annoying and depressing.

Usually when I see this happen, it happens to guys that don't know how to be a nice guy and a sexual guy at the same time. It's either one or the other when it should be both. The biggest problem is that the nice guy is afraid of losing the girl to where he becomes too catering to what she wants at the expense of what she wants...or what is more commonly known as a doormat.

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I have been myself and sexual at the same time, but women seem to respond when I'm less friendly for some reason. That has always been my life experience and I have met a variety of different women of diverse cultural backgrounds. I definitely never allow myself to be a doormat for any woman, no way.