Hey all,

So I've run into this problem and I'm starting to feel it a bit...Every time that I get into a club, somehow I get into the groove, I enjoy dancing, my moves etc and I completely get disinterested into approaching girls. Then, once someone from my group disappears for whatever reason (most likely approaching someone or meeting someone), I totally lose my groove and end up going home, happy because it was fun, but disappointed, because I didn't get what I wanted...

Of course, I go to clubs to have fun and I do once I get to dance, but truthfully, I'd just want to chat, meet people, and take them home. And I have serious problems doing so, to the point that going out to dance is becoming stressful because I have 0 game whatsoever...

...Any pointers for an aspirant mPUA?

my advice would be to just approach some girls for a quick chat and talk to them like there your friend. Don't think about openers/kino/pickup and all that but just teach yourself its not scary to talk to girls.... after you can approach without feeling nervous you can work on your game, some negs and kino and ultimately taking her home.

All the wisdom is in this forum if you read enough and actually do everything you read in person.

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Do not make external things like girls define your happiness or you will live a harsh life. Keep doing what you love and keep improving as a man.

Seems you just need the right mindset for approaching, search for approach anxiety either on this forum or the internet and handle this part first of all. Also, Furiox is right, try to be their friend for starters. After that you can go into deeper stuff.

You need to learn to be confident and have fun by your own, you shouldn't have the need to be surrounded by friends to have a good time. Clear your head.

Guzzin

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