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Online is hideous. I half black so never get any attention online.
Offline, my ego is stroked pretty much due to my height and my eyes. I know I need to get my shit together but at the same time I feel like I could have a nice place and everything and still would find it settle down with a girl because the previous girls I have been with always someone on the side and couldn't be trusted.
Excuses. I'm black and 25% Native American (what most black people say) and that hasn't hurt me online. The rest of what you say is based on the "I have a feeling" excuse that justifies not even trying.Offline, my ego is stroked pretty much due to my height and my eyes. I know I need to get my shit together but at the same time I feel like I could have a nice place and everything and still would find it settle down with a girl because the previous girls I have been with always someone on the side and couldn't be trusted.
Limiting belief and he is probably lazy to make an effort setting up a profile
OP if you get no attention offline, you ain't getting attention online, the opposite is true. if you get attention online, then you're gonna get attention online
OP i am latin/caribbean, and lets say if the lights go off, your not finding me lol. Im Usually the darkest amonst my peers since i hang with alot of latin people. And i understand your fustration, because i used to feel that way as well. Mind you i am handsome, about avg height. Ladies rate me a 8-10. But i was always stuck getting friendzoned or not getting the HB8-10's. I was the nice guy always taking girls out and paying for fancy dates only to get shutdown when i try to f-close. Then to find out these same girls are dating losers who they have to pay for and are putting the kitty on a silver platter. I got tired of all that and decided to put an end to it. Thats when i discovered this forum.
All of my LTR have been pretty girls but back then, that was the only how i was getting some. Now, man im getting pussy from all directions from all kinds of quality chicks.
My first bit of advice is to stay away from online dating. Its just not the same anymore as it was back when i was in HS. I remember being able to talk to a girl, meet up and bang her out on a rooftop or back alley in those days. Now, i can send 100 msgs in a day and barely get 2 responses that will go no where. The online market just isnt the same anymore.
Second bit of advice. You have to work on your inner game. Also accept that rejection is a part of life. You just have to desensitize yourself from the emotions that come with it and you'll be fine. The way i did this was hook girls and then mess up on purpose so i can get rejected. Now i can care less if i get rejected or not, thats her lost not mine.
After you build up your confidence you'll start to feel more comfortable in the game. Learn as much as you can about women, attraction, seduction and most importantly body language.
It wont be an overnight thing but stay consistent and you'll see progress. Start with girls that are under your league and you'll soon build up your confidence to get the hotter girls in your league and beyond.
Take my word, from one dark brother to the next. Women love us!
Getting your life together should be a goal in life period, not just to get women.
