I would recommend a daily text game regimen until you are clear about what is working and what isn't - Text 4 different girls a day with 4 different kind of openers, and see who responds back. Trial & Error my friend. You can't prevent flakes completely, but you can see what is working to help you to reduce them. Here are my text guidelines that i came up with from my own experience..i can't speak for anybody else on this forum.
Text Examples
Girl#1: "Hey ___ what's up?" (basic bait text opener)(I'll purposely not name myself in the initial text to bait the girl into asking who it is that sent her the text)
Girl#2: "Wow! I just saw something crazy. You won't believe what just happened!" (intrigue text)
Girl#3: "Hey ___, did you finally find out what happened to your friend? She looked pissed before she left us. (situational, event recall text) (Recall an event that you both shared, including if someone else was involved)
Girl#4: Fuck the text! Just Call Her (Actually call her bro. You can't be a pussy about this. I hesitated to call some girls in the past because i was afraid of what their reaction might be over the phone if they actually said "Hello" and i'd start talking. Also if you call the girl, it's more direct and ballsy. Not all girls will respond to your text, so try calling some of them)
A Few Rules Of Thumb
1) Emojis & LOLs: Keep in mind that your text to these girls don't always have to make too much logical sense, just as long as she takes the bait, and then you run with it. Remember..girls aren't all that logical, their emotional. So send her a text that can elicit some kind of emotion in her. Emojis can work as they are obviously emotional symbols, and requires little investment text-wise on your part. Just use them sparingly. You can use them by themselves or as an addition to your texts. "LOLs" should be used the same way.
2) Send them value giving text (Not value taking text):
* A funny pic with some stupid quote or saying on it
* Humor & Sexual Compliment: "That booty is sooo big...i'm going to have to put a cup on that thang to see if it stays. LOl"
* Observational Statement (aka Cold Read)/As Opposed To A Question: "You're a redhead so you must have Irish or Scottish lineage, which means you are a heavy drinker"
* Neg/Tease: "My mom warned me about girls like you. You're sexy, but trouble with a capital T". Lol
* Self Amusement/Role Playing: "One day next week, we will just skip along the yellow brick road, hold hands, and take over the world. Just me and you"
3) Give the girl time & space in between your texts and her response, before you respond back with another text. Because it shows the girl that you actually have things going on in your life besides her, and you aren't a needy guy. This is also called "Abundance".
4) Your texts should be no more than 2 to 3 lines. Get her to qualify herself in her texts to you. Initially your texts will more than likely be slightly longer than hers until she hooks, but when her texts become larger in length..you shorten yours.
5) Don't take too long before you go for "The Meetup". Get her logistics as soon as you can to set up the Day-2. Becoming her text buddy is counterproductive to what you are trying to do.
6) Sexual Intent: Some sexual undertone should be in at least half of all your texts to her. She needs to know that you are interested in her on a man-to-woman level. If not, girls can quickly get bored of you if you aren't moving things forward (in a sexual direction).
7) Mass Texting: Text multiple girls at once to gain momentum, whenever you do text girls. I find that i am less nervous when i'm texting multiple girls at once, because i'm not focusing on "saying the right things" with just the one girl. So texting multiple girls at once takes that pressure off. So you will automatically feel more abundant and entitled at the same damn time while you're texting them.
8 ) 48 Hour Window: Some girls will forget about who you are or the attraction that you built with them, if you wait for more than 48 hours (2 days) before you hit them up with a text or call. However..there are always exceptions to this rule. I had one girl that we were texting for a few weeks. Then we stop communicating with each other for several months for whatever reason (I didn't get to fuck her). So i thought that she flaked. And one day i decided to hit her up again out of the blue. Several texts later..i got her logistics, went to her house, and fucked her. Today she is one of my fuck buddies.
9) Follow-Up: Follow back up with active numbers, stalling numbers, and flakey numbers for the very reason that i indicated in point number 8 )..because you never know.
Hope this helps. I apologize if the length of my points were too long.
-G